My little sister just broke up with her boyfriend. They were together for 3 1/2 yrs off and on. They broke up because she found out that he was about to have a baby with a girl he use to mess with before they got back together this last time. Now she's so broken hearted and is still in love with him. How can I help her?
2006-08-11 15:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by shawnigurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-11 15:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by cuquini m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be there for her. Listen and offer your shoulder to cry on. Time is what she needs. Right now she is hurting and can't see things clearly. Try not to insult him in any way it will just cause her to defend him. In time she will move on. It is a real nightmare to deal with a broken heart. She will at times make him out to be the greatest gift from God to Satan's spawn in under one minute if she handles it like my friend did. Just let her know your there for her. Wish you lots of luck and hope it works out for her.
2006-08-11 22:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by anntrek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand the problem if they werent togather when he got the other girl pregnant then why did she break up with him? maybe when she thinks this through she will decide to take him back. maybe it was such a blow to her it kind of traumatized her for a little while. i dont really know but it just seems to me they werent togather when the other girl got preg there should not be a trouble that they cant work out togather if the relationship means so much to both of them...
2006-08-11 22:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and listen to her. She will need time to get over it.
2006-08-11 22:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS WHEN YOU NEED TO BE THE BIG SISITER YOU DREAM OF HAVING - LOVE HER,LET HER CRY AND SUPPORT HER. LISTENING WHEN SHE WANT TO TALK IS PROBABLY THE BEST FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.
2006-08-11 22:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by cremcharl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ice cream and time
2006-08-11 22:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋