my girlfriend is very confused.Why is this so crazy Everything is going wrong. her heart is breaking she just cant stay strong.she 's inlove with her b/f. but, she think her boyfriend was cheating on her.. she is confused..cant he see hes hurting her?
2006-08-11 15:17:23 · 14 answers · asked by Gurlie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
course he see he's hurting her. she needs to grow up and dump this guy
2006-08-11 15:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by dani3lhuh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like maybe She has a lot of growing up to do and back off of the guys for a while. Cause once a cheater always a cheater no matter the reason.
2006-08-11 22:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My illegitimate kitten had a very similar issue several decades ago. She found out her boyfriend was cheating on her and just told him flat out- "HEY you fudge-packin' sunnofabitch! I'm going to loose the money in our vacation jar in reno and there's nothing you can do to keep me from going Horseback riding in a R2D2 costume...."
2006-08-11 22:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To unconfuse her, just simply ask her these questions:
How do you feel when (her boyfriend) does this (or say this) to you?
Believe me, her boyfriend must have being abusing her. I was in that similiar scenario. The best thing was I returned the engagement ring. Thank heaven, I didn't marry him.
2006-08-11 22:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her be a good friend let her lean on you be her helper she is going trough hard times right now and her bf is just stepping all over her dont let this happen convince her she is to good for that ....show her its not the wnd of her world ....
2006-08-11 22:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy LoVe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people in love don't want to see the truth, especially if the truth would hurt them. my best friend was like that before she died, well before she got sick. her boyfriend was using her and treated her like crap, even flirted with my friend in front of me, knowing i would go back and tell her. she refused to believe me, cuz she loved him. just be there for her, she'll come to her senses sooner or later. and when she does, be her friend. no i told you so's, just be there for her.
2006-08-11 22:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by mizz_kitty_79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants your opinion only if it agrees with her decision. I know I have been there. Keep attempting to guide her, but never make her choose between the two of you.
2006-08-11 22:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by jjminor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your playing it wrong read some dating tips on this site
2006-08-11 22:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes hurting her. she needs to get rid of this before it becomes a huge heartbrake.
2006-08-11 22:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not cheeting hes not hurting her.she needs to grow up
2006-08-11 22:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by robin m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋