I have moved out of state waiting for my appeal to see my children, been fighting for 3 years now, got a job. My dad finally talked to my son (18) and he said he does want to see me in time. I feel I should get on a plane ASAP and get back there, I dont know when that may be could be days or years, but nevertheless I want to be there. Should I get back ASAP, or wait for a court date and keep my job here until then.
2006-08-11 15:16:27 · 11 answers · asked by ms.mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
GO ASAP boy what are you waiting for?!
2006-08-11 15:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Erin the ROCKSTAR! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. big decision. don't give up your job. can't you go on a day off or something? sure, it would suck to have a very short time there, but if you already have a job, there is no sense in blowing it. Maybe your son could meet you half way or something. Guess it really depends on what kind of job you have.
Is it possible that you could move back there and find a job?
Maybe your new boss would be understanding enough to give you a few days off in a row so you could go back. Maybe while you are there you could find another job, and move back there so that you don't have this distance thing between you.
Good luck!
2006-08-11 15:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEEN where your at and its a very hard choice to make simple because you need aplace for the both of you and you need to learn to be patient and God only knows that the waiting is very stressful in itself you did the right thing by getting the job but why did you move out of state that doesnt sound to good it sounds like your running from something else if you were in the same state could you not get some sort of visitation but if i were you i would come back to where they are it worked for me GOOD LUCK
2006-08-11 15:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure I underdstand the question.... from what i think your saying you should stay where you are for the time being and work on this court issue. Your children are more important at the moment. Then go back to see your father, unless of course there is a health issue....good luck
2006-08-11 15:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said he wants to see you in time, so let it happen in time, let him know some how, either through your dad, or by mail, on how to get a hold of you, just incase it is sooner then later that he wants to see you. But i think keeping your job, and distance is good, you do not want to push the issue, cause in the end it could lead to resentment. Hope this works out for you.
2006-08-11 15:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by jessabunnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 04:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, off why have you been fighting for 3 years to see your son and why did you leave? Was it for the best. If it was then it is time to see your he can't stop you from seeing your son. The father must just being a jack***.
2006-08-11 15:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by cherries_4_ever33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you should do:
1. Don't quit the job unless you are going to go back there for good and if you do save up some money to start over again with fist
2. Save some money and then travel there for a weekend to see the kids. if you can make it an important date like a birthday or Christmas, that way they;ll appreciate it more!
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2006-08-11 15:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by bigsho222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your situation is, but I do know that your children should be first,next to God.Don't violate any court orders because it'll only make it worse. But let your children know that you love them and are there for them. Make sure they know that whatever your problems are, it isn't their fault. Phone calls, letters, and support are your best answers right now. I have three children from a previous marriage and they have nothing to do with their birth father (their choice) because he stopped giving them support and eventually stopped contact. This really damages a child emotionally, no matter what age, because the young grow up and have questions. I tried to make excuses for him, but they figured it out as they got older and are still mentally suffering from it, despite their step-father adopting them, whom they love very much and now call "daddy". Please give them your love and support! May God Bless You And Your Children!!!
2006-08-11 16:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by JW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think you should follow the rules and wait for the court and REALLY keep your job !!! you do not want to look irresponsible!!! you will see your children in the right time be patient... and do not spoil what you have achieved so far...
2006-08-11 15:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋