I hang around a bunch of kids, who at senior week, practically had a big orgy amongst each other. I knew such licentious acts were amuck, but i can't understand why girls are flaunting their body parts around and giving it up to guys that just use them for sex. The word "monogamous" and "platonic" aren't even in their vocabulay. It disgusts me how they always have random hook-ups. I used to see those girls gone wild infomercials at night and i would think that couldn't be any further from the truth. Man am i naive or what. Girls, like the ones i'm referring to, are unreserved, smutty, and indifferent to the brief exposure of their breasts. I don't really care personally about they desecrating their body like that, but i'm very intrigued as to why someone would do that. What compels girls to run around from guy to guy, to do anything of the smut nature? I know alcohol has a role in it, but that is no excuse for them to "reluctant." They are better than that, and i don't mean to offend.
2006-08-11 15:13:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
ilovebuxies,
I saw the questions that you ask, such as "how much will take to get me drunk", and i want to ask you why? Why degrade yourself, when i'm sure you are a perfectly stable person who could contribute to this world in a good way. I wasn't looking for a girlfriend, so i consider your flippant remark immature and unwise.
2006-08-11 15:23:20 · update #1
It is a question that the society seem to ignore in this modern era. On a quick look one would say young girls act such way due to lack of moral values and lack of self preservation and respect.
Actually I am a conservative type as I can describe but I would like to give a fair insight to such girls you described.What made them to be promiscuous and open? Well, the foremost reason I
can see is the influence of the modern society with degraded moral values. Flaws in parental upbringing of their children play a great role as well.
Unjustified liberal attitude towards sex.....is no longer a big deal for the people of the modern world. It turned to become a usual practice that got higher acceptance and tolerance of the society. It turned out to be like fashion, hence some girls just go with the curent trends. Freedom is on their hand so they can do just like anyone around. It seems to be fun as what they see around so why not benefit the "pleasures". Who cares as long as they are enjoying so " go and dance with the music". Peers and environmental factors brought in too much influence.
Is there no way out for those young girls in this situation? The parental upbringing takes its role. If adequate moral values are well embedded in their hearts and minds since their early years there could be a factor holding them back from behaving immodestly. Parental guidance is very essential especially in the teen years as it is an age of discovery which is a very critical stage. But what if the parents got liberated attitude towars sex as well or doesn't mind what their girls do as long as they are enjoying in what they do? Well. that will be another story. The society and culture make great differences on individual's sex perception obviously.
Hey, this subject needs a very long way of discussion. Anyway, in my own view let me say that if the girl got a strong foundation of self respect and fear-of God, it won't be easy for her to fall in this disgusting physical 'unreservation', that's what I believe.
2006-08-12 03:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ lani s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know... but I imagine they are rather insecure and think a guy's attention will label them as 'okay'. Or they're extremely vain... well, about the 'you won't get a girlfriend' remark, not! I know you're not looking but I strive to be modest in every way and sincerely hope I am not at all like the girls you are describing. I will pray you find peace in this troubled world of immodesty.
2006-08-11 16:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by sir'slady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong category, but as long as I'm here, they "pretend it really isn't "them" what they do there stays there. its an excuse to be bold and not have to answer for it. the more educated the girl and the higher the self esteem the less likely to indulge.
2006-08-11 15:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by sillygoose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you put this question in the PET category because you think this is petting? Delete the question and put it in the proper group.
2006-08-11 15:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with an attitude like that, the word girlfriend wont be in YOUR vocabulary
2006-08-11 15:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋