not like you win a prize.
you will only have a chance in life to have sex with one girl and not get to explorer unless you cheat or get a divorce. and what if you dont plan on getting married.
2006-08-11 15:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by mr. __ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I totally disagree with the idiotic idea of waiting until marriage to have sex. Some people are married and are having sex and aren't in love and others aren't married, are madly in love and don't have sex. It makes no sense.
I, also, am not very much for marriage. You love someone.. okay, good. Show it through your actions. Getting married doesn't prove that you love someone it just proves that you like wasting money.
I'm not saying go have sex with whomever but waiting until marriage is really stupid and doesn't prove that you're innocent. You could never get married, date one person for your whole life and have sex with only that one person. Or you could wait until marriage to have sex and get married five times and have sex with each of them and you would be much more of a slut than the person that didn't wait for marriage and stuck to one person.
Also, i don't think that it's a good thing but it's reality. Sex plays a huge role on people's relationship.. you should know what sex is like before getting married to someone. It's like not living with someone before getting married. I find it completely ridiculous.. you find out so much more about the person when you live with them that you probably wouldn't notice if you don't live together♥ hope this made sense!
2006-08-11 15:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica Cohen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the pros is that you're statistically less likely to experience sexual dysfunction in the marriage, meaning both partners are more likely to be fully satisfied by the spouse.. another is you're less likely to end up divorced, which is quite costly. I once saw a list of about 50 pros to waiting for marriage, taken from non-religious scientific studies. These are the only ones I remember. The studies mentioned, for both of these points, that you lose that benefit even if you only have sex with one partner, if you did it before marriage. "Try before you buy" apparently is a recipe for self-destructing later, for reasons we don't yet fully understand.
2006-08-11 22:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Gen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...there is the issue of not having to worry about STDs (if both parties were virgins until marriage), or pre-marital pregnancy. There's also the issue of making it special for one another. Sex loses its meaning if you screw around. It's meant to be an act of love between two consenting partners.
Granted, I'm not particularly for or against waiting until marriage. But there are benefits to waiting until marriage. You seem to already have covered some of the benefits of not waiting.
2006-08-11 22:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pro- you get to discover it for the first time together.
Con- you have to wait till marriage
2006-08-11 22:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to ever think about 'oh no what are they thinking..' you can just be yourself and know they love you for you and not for how well/or not you are in bed. You won't get any weird diseases and won't get accidently pregnant without having some sort of security to know that you have someone who is with you that will support everything you go through because you are going through it together. It's more respectful for you and them.
2006-08-11 22:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by cutie pie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IT is just that winning aprize simple because that is a untouched part of your love for each other. because you must then protect and honor her body as you would your own what greater respect could you have for the woman who saved herself just for you and if you dont plan on getting married than i think you need to have avery good medical plan and agood job to keep you in condoms your going to need them holla
2006-08-11 22:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pro: you can be happy about being so virtuous and
pure
con: you can kill yourself when you find out your partner
is a literal pig in bed - in EVERY way!!!
take your pick bucko!!! badda boom badda bing
2006-08-11 22:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pros: you'll have good fun
cons: you'll only have about 10 minutes of fun, and then never see each other again.
if you wait till you get married, then you can do it whenever for how long, but make sure that you really love that person and ur not just marrying her for ............her
2006-08-11 22:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by rita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the pros want money for sex.the cons are gettin prison sex.
2006-08-11 22:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by denny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to try before you buy a refund on marage could cost you dearly
2006-08-11 22:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋