i have a friend thats 4'11 and shes dating a guy thats 5'9. is that too big of a difference? hes a year older. she is really pretty and her friend that is typing it(me) is not as pretty.. ppl hate me for like no reason but they love her.. she resently moved here and its like she took my place. me and her r really good friends but its weird. i need advice!
2006-08-11 15:01:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
a relationship should have nothing to do with height or anything like that, its how you really feel about the person. you should like them for them if its real she should know it.
2006-08-11 15:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relatinship should never have anything to do with what makes a couple happy. I am also 4'11" and when i was in high school I dated a guy for 3 years who was 6'4". People use to always make comments about it but we looked past that.
2006-08-11 15:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by awesomemommy05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you are refering to height difference? I don't think it matters as long as they are OK with it. I am 5'6" and my husband is 6'3" so that's only one inch less in height difference than your friend and her boyfriend.
You don't mention your age, but girls change a lot through their teens. Many girls that were very pretty in high school are now overweight and haven't aged well, and many that were plain in high school grew up to be very beautiful. High school is temporary - you will not spend much time thinking about it after you graduate and move on to the next step in your life. Try to focus on making sure that you like YOURSELF, and in the long run other people will like you.
Good luck!
2006-08-11 15:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by davis0375 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Height should not play a factor in a relationship. Some like tall people and some go for short people. It depends on that person that is dating that person and if he treats her well, respects her etc then hey all is good and the height has nothing to do with it.
2006-08-11 15:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question sounds really jealous and petty. Maybe there is a reason that people don't like you, especially if you act the same way that your question sounds. Focus on being a good person. Good luck.
2006-08-11 15:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people shouldnt like you for what you look like. As long as you guys are both friends , you shouldn't care. As far as the height difference, that really isnt what a relationship is based on. and if it is, then there really is no point dating.
2006-08-11 15:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by oxhersheykisseso 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
height does not matter. U have always been around and they like you just, because she is around now doen't mean a thing they still like you because of who you are not what you look like.
2006-08-11 16:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Destiny G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI , MY FOURTEEN YEAR OLD SON USED TO THINK THAT PEOPLE HATED HIM AND I TOLD HIM JUST TO BE HIM-SELF AND THAT PEOPLE WOULD LIKE HIM , AND I AM SURE THAT YOU ARE A VERY PRETTY GIRL.
2006-08-11 15:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Vicki B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares? if they like each other it shouldnt matte.......smaller girls like taller guys cuz they like hugging around the waist, i can do that better if were the same size (roughly)
2006-08-11 15:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♣BrownEyedBeauty♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
height shouldn't have anything to do with it! it's how they truly feel about each other.
2006-08-11 15:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋