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Question

i am not a mean person. but there is this one person that i often think about killing because she is so mean to me all the time. when im in her way she uses my weight as an exeuse, and instead of politely asking me to move she yells and says can you move that big thing out of the way, and ofcourse she makes everyone laugh. is this a cry for attention, does making fun of me make her happy? how can i get her back for embarrassing me, and ruining my life at work?

she works where i work

telling the boss wont help he does stuff like that to and just laughs at her

Answer 1

WELL WHERE DO YOU SEE HER?
THEN I CAN TELL YOU HOW TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE... AND YES.. SHE HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM SO SHE ATTACKS YOU TO MAKE HERSELF FEEL GOOD.
JUST ALWAYS KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE WINNER NOT HER AND THAT YOU HAVE A LOT TO BE PROUD OF.. AT LEAST YOUR NOT A JERK.

Answer 2

If this is going on at your work, let the boss know. If you don't want to do that, try asking her in front of everyone, what you said here: "Is this a cry for attention? Does making fun of me make [you] happy?" There's no way in the world any adult should have to put up with that kind of childish nonsense. But remember, revenge is never a good solution; it just takes you down to her level. Is that where you want to be?
Good luck!

Answer 3

HOW TO BE MEAN - TRUTH IS THE GREATEST INSULT

you must reciprocate in a similar fashion. look what she has done to you - insulted you because of your weight, a surface feature. it hurts, doesnt it?

so do the same to her. use any of her visable features as a medium for abuse.

if she is underweight, catch her eating and ask, "aren't you just going to be throwing that up later?"
if she has kids, tell her to "shut the **** up and go squat out another baby"

there are tons of ways to use truth to insult someone. sterotype her in any way possible - and by all means, use racial slurs, if she is a different race than you. those usually dig some deep wounds

dont be polite - if she has all your co-workers laughing at you, then you need to show some verbal aggression, or soon they will all be walking all over you

Answer 4

omg this is at a work place? I really hope she is not your boss either way you should go to her boss or your supervisor and say something, I would have already waited outside for that person and pushed them down to the ground and said you've pushed me far enough, then I would have continued to stomp on them, or at least I would have wanted to as well, anyways you don't have to take that kind of treatment anywhere, especially work, I am quite sure if she get's at least a warning maybe she will see what a rotten person she has been being, well at least she will shut up , if not push for her to get fired, she deserves it, especially when you have done nothing to her for her to treat you that way

Answer 5

years ago as a youth , slightly built, i worked in a butcher shop.. my boss was tall and weighed about 300lbs... he was a good decent man who taught me a lot .. and i've been quoting the man's wisdom for 30 yrs now ... however he was a drinker and when he "layed off the sauce" for a few days he could get real nasty. he sometimes would bump into me on purpose, pushing me into the wall right in front of customers... i was young but i was never anyones fool so i "called him out". " eddy ", i said," get in the ice box" ... we went into the back refrigerator room and i told him just how i felt,.... i also told him i appreciated all he had done for me but now its time to part ways... i'll always remember him fondly, but i never regretted leaving... i dont know the particulars of your situation but i know you got to just stand up for yourself at all costs... you have to live w/ you a long time... take no crap from anyone ! be polite but be firm , no arguing no debate[ you dont need to hear her point of view]and dont sugar coat anything...."michi" my mom always said that ...its also a good strategy.. she was pretty wise herself !

Answer 6

As hard as this can be, don't sink to her level, she obviously needs attention, and sometimes bad attention is still attention. Maybe next time, try to defuse her by saying, Sorry Marcy, sure I'll move, and that is a nice sweater you are wearing! When you keep fighting her "fire" with niceties, she will get bored w/trying to bother you and move on. People only pick when they get responses. People only pick to make themselves feel superior.

Answer 7

Why be polite? You're bigger than she is! Push her back, and tell her..."DO THAT TO ME AGAIN! AND I'LL SHOW YOU JUST HOW BIG I AM, B*TCH!" She knows she can get away with pushing you around, and untill you stand up for yourself, it will continue. Good Luck!

Answer 8

find out her innermost secret and use it to DESTROY her. find out who she loves that is dead and mock them. spread vicious, untrue rumors about her, and take every oppurtunity to wreak havoc on her in a PERSONAL way, if possible. find her biggest weakness and exploit it mercilessly.

remember, whats good for the goose should be jealously guarded by the gander until the goose dies!!!

Answer 9

she obviously has low self-esteem if she constantly makes fun of u and your appearance. tell her to go suck a big donkey d*ck or your big a** will squash her.

Answer 10

yeah, you know what ? you do need to come back with something to knock her off her ***, so to speak.

Just say something like, 'well at least it's all bought and paid for...you know, sort of like your fake breasts.'


OHHHH, I am bad grrl.

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