I'm sick of people?

Question

Every day of my life is worse then the day before it.

I don't enjoy anything anymore. I haven't been happy in years.

I don't have any friends, and I barely talk to anyone anymore.

I've lost all of my faith in humanity. I haven't met a good person in along time and I'm afraid I won't..

I just need some help, IDK what to do with myself anymore.

Everyone else seems to have friends and associates.. but it all just seems shallow and fake to me.

What's wrong with me?

Also let me mention that I'm a college student and actually a good looking guy. I just served a year in the military.

I also would like to believe i live my life the right way. I dont wrong people and I have good morals. I always try to do the right thing and help other people when they need it.

But there's never anyone there for me.

Oh and I have hobbies and stuff to do..

I keep myself busy, but everything just seems so pointless.

All i want in life is a good career that I enjoy, a good girl that I appreciate and a few good close friends.

But I'm no where close to having any of those things right now.. and everything just seems pointless. My mediocre job right now. The classes I'll be taking in the fall. Everything.

I'm usually a fun love-able guy, people used to compare me to JD from the TV show scrubs. I want to be a doctor (or an actor coincendently)..

i just in a bad ways right now, my dads always on my case making me feel bad about myself, and i dont have any friends to talk to, and i just dont know..

i dont feel like ill ever accomplish the sorts of things i want to.

theres so many people in the world, so much competition.

what in the world would set me apart or make me special?

Answer 1

Honestly,I do care,you may be depressed and a lot of the new antidepressants work great,such as Paxil and Zoloft,it is one thing to be sad from time to time but it has gone too far,please go see a Doctor.you can make friends on here,I have!If you want to write me I will write you back,I am a 46 year old mom with a very good heart and love people!

Answer 2

Nothing is wrong with u buddy, I have felt the same way for a long time, it would help if u seeked some help like I did, but yep ur gonna say tried that etc etc , and ur right there really isnt much that can make ur feelings change except yourself, I take the odd valium prescribed by my doc for anxiety and I find a couple of drinks help as well, I said a couple. I think its just getting older, and the world isnt what it was, people arent what they used to be, there is more violence, everything is more expensive etc etc. but ur not alone pal, I live in Adelaide Australia and if u were close we could chat, u could always email me if u need someone to chat to, [e-mail] as far as friends go, usually they cause u more problems than anything else, try and find one good friend, ur lucky if u have just one. I found walking long walks to help, clears the mind, try not to think to much, try being a kid again, I know all these things are easy for people to say, people will try and tell you things, I have been there, still am I think, Ive seen shrinks and docs etc etc , but no one can really help but urself, u have to lift urself up out of this depressed state, cos thats what is happening to u . You are suffering from Depression, it only gets worse not better if u stay like this, so get up, think happy that u are alive, dont worry about the world or the idiots running it cos it wont do any good, wake up and laugh at the world, say to urself what a bunch of idiots all they do is fight and complain, and thats not what u want , so get out there and find a beautiful spot maybe along the beach or somewhere, go for a nice long walk, smell the fresh air, and have a drink for me, cos I will be out there somewhere in Australia walking, having a drink and thinking of you my friend, be happy and peace brother.. You have a new friend now, and my name is Peter, be cool man, its not that hard.

Answer 3

Listen pal, I am a mid-forty man. Everything you said I am going through too. I also go to college, and take 6 to 9 credit hrs. per tri-semester. It's going soo slow in college, that I'm ready to rip my head off. I have 7-trimesters to go to get a degree. that's 105 weeks. I get fed up all of the time. What do I do? I take all that energy that is making me feel stupid, sad, lonely, crazy, pissed-off, and I just put it into my studies. I look at it this way; eventually I will have a great job, make new friends, and a steady pay check. Looking at the future, for me seems to be so far away that most of the time I just see black. It will get better bud, I know it will. Just don't do nothing stupid like quit college. You will really feel like sh*t if you do that. Hang in there like I'm doing and it should all work out. Oh, I'm disabled too, I walk with a cane when I walk for a long time. How suckie is that when your 44 y/o. Pal it blows the big fat monkey dick. Just strap yourself in and take this shitty ride. It will be all over sometime and you'll be fine.

Answer 4

I dont know what experiences in your life have made you skeptical about peoples intentions. But it sounds like this attitude you are currently having is making you more misarable than anything. Yeah humanity may seem like is heading towards a download slope, but there are still people out there who are worth it. It seems like now more than ever you need people who show you the good in people and life. Get out there and start meeting people, at least try, there has to be someone who holds the same values you do. Not everyone is shallow and fake. Get out there and get a hobby or regain an old one...find strength within yourself and get along. You deserve to be happy..i wish you only but the best luck

Answer 5

You didn't ask a question but maybe you aren't meeting the right people and, if you don't mind a book suggestion: read "Conversations with God". It tells you all about what humanity really is all about. Maybe you will have more faith in humanity after reading this and, if you are so inspired, can meet others who have read and enjoyed this series of books. There is nothing wrong with you - I think you have low self-esteem, but this can be changed. I hope this helps some. That's the best I could do. Good luck!

Answer 6

I'm atheist but i've read the bible before and this is some of what i've found in it: Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked
or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither— whatever they do prospers.Not so the wicked! They are like chaff that the wind blows away. Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment,
nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous. For the Lord watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked leads to destruction.

Answer 7

1. thats ur problem, dont try to compete with everyone. cuz ur already an individual which automaticly makes u a special person.
3.ur in college find some people who have the same interest, make friends in ur class both sex one of those girls will obviously fall in love with u, u seem like a good person.
and 4. dont listen to ur father, everyone in the world has a reason to live and is a contribution to the planet in their own way.

Answer 8

Depression. Do you smoke pot? I do, and I know I have become anti-social. I really cannot stand people either, and it gets worse every day. Try going to talk with somebody, you need to get out of your funk. Think positive thoughts, this is what I am trying and it seems to help. Take deep breaths when you get pissed off. Half of your prob is negativity, you are expecting people to be fake etc. When you expect bad things, that is what happens. Try a different outlook, think differently. Think to yourself, maybe there are some nice people out there. I know it sounds easy, but believe me, it does help, and you will see a difference in yourself, and in your mind.

Answer 9

I know how you feel, I just went through the hardest year of my life and there were times when I felt like just giving up and ending it all. the only thing that got me through it was my friend Jackie, So if you need someone to talk to I'm here. [e-mail]

Edit: I also know how you feel about your dad, my mom just will never let up on me all she does is criticize me and tell me I did this wrong and just little stuff like that is really the thing that matters most and she just doesn't get it so like I said before you can talk to me if you want.

Answer 10

Nothing is wrong with you, I think your just in a rutt, so get out go have fun, It dont matter what other people thing of you just as long as you like who you are. YOu dont have to have lots of friends Just find one and go from there. Yes some people are butt heads but you have to deal with them. Just try to make the best out of what you have. just rember there is all ways some one out there worse off then you are.

I hope that I helped,
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