Is there sth fishy about this or is it just me?
A female friend of mine keeps making comments on how beautiful/hot/gorgeous I am. I just thought she was being nice untill last night in this party she came real close n I was like what? she said that she's just tryna hit on a sexy chick, I giggled n moved away. I dont know if she's bi or a lez but she sometimes acts weird. Sometimes she makes me feel like I'm talking to my bf or sth, like I have to call her everyday or she'd get really upset if i dont, she also gets upset if I talk/go out with another person when she's around, she said that she hates my bf *for no obvious reason*. She entered the room while I was changing and she knew I was in there getting dressed and she didnt knock!! What's up with that? BTW I'm str8.
2006-08-11 13:50:42 · 19 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Good lord, that is such a compliment. Whether or not shes bi what a compliment. You must be gorgeous... I would be happy if someone told me all that whether or not she way gay.
2006-08-11 13:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's crushing on you. Don't lead her on if you truly aren't interested. Instead, when you're together, tell her she's a good person and she should get herself someone special. Then, you talk about a guy YOU are interested in or something like that. Don't say or do things to confuse or mislead her. Even str8 women can LOVE the attention of a lez even if they don't plan on following through. Don't be a heartbreaker.
2006-08-11 21:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You evidently are sending her some not-so-straight signals. You need to put an end to her behavior now, or accept the fact that you have a female admirer and start responding to her.
What is it you want?
2006-08-11 20:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you more than a friend. She has to be gay for all those weird things that she is doing to you. If you are straight and don't like how she makes you feel you need to be up front and tell her how you feel.
2006-08-11 20:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Virgin Islands Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times people who we chose to be our friends are confused on their own sexuality. You should set your boundaries with this friend let them know that they have upset you and things need to change if they want to continue there relationship with you
2006-08-11 20:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by steve m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have a crush on you,why don't you just ask her? If it's causing you to be uncomfortable,then you should talk to her. If she is defensive,I'd say yes. If you're that uncomfortable,perhaps you should also seek a different class of friends.
2006-08-11 20:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is fishy but you do need to let her know that you don't go that way. A real friend will understand .
2006-08-11 20:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by pricemoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obvious thinks you're hot and has a thing for you. If you're not into it, just tell her so, but in a nice way.
2006-08-11 20:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's either bi or les, and interested in you. You need to sit her down and have a little talk. you need to tell her that you don't like her "that way."
2006-08-11 21:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sounds fishy to me.
2006-08-11 20:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by sweetchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋