i met this guy and he really likes me and i only thought of him as a friend but he's looking for marriage and a family. he tells me he love me and everything but im not feeling him and i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't want him that way! only a friend.
2006-08-11 13:45:50 · 14 answers · asked by cutiepie2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him you're not ready for all of that. But you do have to tell him, don't just let him think all of that if it isn't true. Be honest but not brutally honest, don't want to be mean, just truthful. If you want to you can also suggest to maybe just be good friends. Good luck with him.
2006-08-11 13:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only hurt his feelings more if you lead him on. If you really don't want to go out with him, just tell him, say something like "you're a really great guy, but i'm not the one for you and i'm sure that you'll find someone who really loves you one day, and i'm sorry but I just want to be friends." It will hurt his feelings a little but the sooner he starts getting over you, the better he will be.
2006-08-11 14:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Respectfully tell him the truth. Just say; I have to respectfully tell you the truth, I have feelings of great friendship for you. That I value very much. I want to be honest with you and tell you that is how I feel. That I can be great friends and nothing beyond that. I am sorry to hurt you.
He will be hurt, angry and may or may not ever talk to you again. But you have to live your life and your feelings matter. Do what is right for you. Good Luck, you can get through this!
2006-08-11 13:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt his feelings hes a big boy, i bought your the first girl who has turned his clingy butt down. Chic's need to learn to be more straight forward with guys . there is no such thing as the just friends part. you cant turn love off and just switch it to like over night. you just need to tell him, hey dude your overwelming me, i cant breathe. please stop calling me so much. i want to be on good terms with you, if you ever need a friend to talk to im here for you, but otherwise id like you to move on and be happy in your life. i dont want a relationship with you.
2006-08-11 13:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not telling him will make him only think that you like him. You have to tell him or else, things can get worse. If he's the aggressive type, then mean so it can get thru to his head. If he's gentle then tell him politely about how you feel about him, and if he loves you then he will understand that.
2006-08-11 14:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to hurt him. If he really likes you, but you don't like him then I guess you just have to let go and tell him. It's hard to not hurt him, but it is impossible. So just do it, you have to tell him anyways.
2006-08-11 13:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by sherry_pucca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's aggresive, you might have to tell him to back up and be mean. But if he's nice, just keep reminding him how great of a "friend" he is and stress on friend. Or just push him off on one of your desperate friends...lol
2006-08-11 13:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to make him dislike you. start blowing him off. don't answer his calls when he calls and keep it short when you do talk to him over the phone. Hopefully he will get the picture. AND Stop leading him on.
2006-08-11 13:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you hope one day he finds the right person, someone who returns his feelings.
2006-08-11 13:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-11 13:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋