About a year and a half ago i had a good friend pass away and that day my boyfriend that i have now been with for two years decides to go out to lunch with his friends. But when his best friend died in a car accident i ditched school to be there for him and comfort him. The one day that mattered the most to me. . . he thought that going out to lunch with his friends was more important. Why is it that guys always tend to run out on the most important/hurtfull days in a girls life???
2006-08-11 13:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Toni 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
You poor girl. I know it's hard. But sometimes men just walk away at the wrong times. They can't really help it. I mean they usually don't plan it. Sometimes you just have to love men for the times they are here and not be dissapointed at the times they aren't.
2006-08-11 13:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by iloveicecream103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as you think it might be to do but you should just staright out ask him!!
" I think that you should of stayed with me during this difficult time and I feel that you just dumped me and left me all alone. I needed you to be there for me and you weren't. Why is it so hard for you to understand that we are a couple and we should be dealing with these things together." So maybe you should say your sorry and we can go on with our lives by sharing all things together.
Try that. Let me know.
2006-08-11 13:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by moonchild69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it may hurt, be thankful. People show their true colors at the time of a crisis. His leaving shows where his priorities are. Just think of it as an eye-opener and tell him how you feel.
2006-08-11 13:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Amazon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a man thing, do not try to understand
2006-08-11 13:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by class4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probly didnt know how to react
2006-08-11 13:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by dlc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just how they r get use to it because we're stuck with them
2006-08-11 14:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it called the gift of being stupid,
2006-08-11 13:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take this up with him.
2006-08-11 13:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by yo_momma_is_sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hear he did that, i wouldnt have
2006-08-11 13:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by deluxe_pow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋