another guy asked my girlfriend out and she said yes but then she said no i think she said yes because she wanted to b nice but i still don't know if i should break up with her
2006-08-11 12:35:55 · 38 answers · asked by kwendren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
talk to her and ask. communication is key :)
2006-08-11 12:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, taking a step back and noticing that you said *another*....
That means that it's obviously happened more than once. What you didn't say is wether or not she has said yes more than once. If she truly wanted to be with you and just you, then yes would have never come from her mouth. So maybe you should rethink your relationship choices. But it seems to me that when debating something like this, people never actually listen to what others tell them, so chances are very likely that you will just stay with her.
Your choice, but be prepared to ask this same question several time over again.
2006-08-11 12:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by tipperz_3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she say yes in the first place, she should of said I'm sorry but I have a boyfriend right now but thank you for asking. Did she then say no because you found out???? I think you two really need to talk.
2006-08-11 12:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this here and not asking her?
If you are ready to break up over this why not get her side of the story. She said no.....maybe you are the reason?
How close have you been with her? Does she think she is still dating and not tied to anyone yet?
Check it out with her.....don't throw her out without even talking with her. If you do she must not have meant that much anyway.
2006-08-11 12:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? Let me get this straight! Another guy as YOUR girlfriend out! Man that is crazy! Well like the person said down below you need to ask questions thats how you get answers
2006-08-11 12:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by antonette_lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being nice don't have anything to do with saying yes. if she is already in a relationship why would she say such a thing. don't break up with her without first finding out why she really said yes. that's not really something to break up with someone for because i hope yall relationship is on better grounds than that.
2006-08-11 12:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by hotgurl 04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF ? thats screwd dude, shes either with you or not ? The fact she said yes kind of questions wether she really wants to be with you. Personally I would show her the door.
If a girl asked you out and you said yes, what do you think your gf would do ? Prob have a nice set of hairy balls as earrings the next day. I say let her go, she cant be trusted & you can do a lot better.
2006-08-11 12:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that is the dumbest thing I've ever heard of... (I'm not calling you dumb but what your gf did). How could she say yes to go out with another man when she has a bf... that's not being nice to someone else that's being cruel to you.. and if it were me I'm sorry but I'de be on the next thing smoking... good luck.
2006-08-11 12:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she said yes probably means she either:
1) has problems saying no to people in general
2) Wants to start dating other people but feels to guilty to bring it up with you.
Have a heart-to-heart talk with her. Tell her that you value your relationship with her but you don't want her to be uncomfortable. If she's uncomfortable about the relationship, back off and tell her to call you when she feels comfortable again. Don't hold out for her if you back off. If another opportunity arises, go for it. If you wait around for her, you will appear weak (sounds primal but it's true).
Show her your a nice guy but your not going to play games.
2006-08-11 12:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sleepy Dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well ders 3 ways to look at it...either she really did just say yes to be nice n doesnt really wanna go n if she does shes gnna be bored, or its you and u might not be doing something right and should maybe ask her about that, or you can just break up with her without doing ne research which would be really stupid so i say just ask her y she said yes and den go form der
2006-08-11 12:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to and find out why she really said it, just like u said u was just being nice about it, but u needed to hear it from her why she said yes.
mara
2006-08-15 10:52:03 · answer #11 · answered by sunsetlove718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋