lets say a guy is still loves you, but you want nothing to do with him because he hurt you. is it the right thing to do to cut them out of your life, not even give them the chance of day. knowing that your hurting them...but also knowing this is best for you.
2006-08-11 12:15:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, stay strong and do NOT give in!
If he truely loved you, he would never have hurt you!
You could try to be "nice" and remain friends,
but be direct and up front. Let him know you are
not intetrested in anything more than friendship.
If he is persistent, still, you may have no choice but
to completely cut ties with him, regardless of how
he feels.
What's important is how you feel.
And, you don't want to get hurt again..
2006-08-11 12:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Sasha♥~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be the best thing but not the best decision. I don't think its good to cut someone off completely. you don't ever know when you would need this guy! I think another chance is possible. Peaple do change and things does get better but if you know for a fact its not a good choice then don't do it. Its good to forgive others! you should remember that!
2006-08-11 19:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by antonette_lawrence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it is best for you then of course do it. Why give them another chance to do it again? You really are not hurting them, did they think of your feelings when they did their hurtful thing?
2006-08-11 19:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hurt you, and he can do it again. If you don't want to talk to him, he shouldn't talk to you. It's called stalking.
If you're worried about hurting his feelings, then are you sure you want nothing to do with him? Is there some way he can prove he won't hurt you again? If so, have him do it before you even talk to him again. If not, then talking to him puts you at risk of being hurt again. Is there anything he has that's worth that risk?
You have to do what's best for you, because nobody else will.
2006-08-11 19:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be up to you if you know that he will hurt you then. Tell him he hurt you to bad and you are not willing to take that can of chance on him.
2006-08-11 19:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-11 19:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-08-11 20:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life and leave him in the past. If you don't then it will hold you back. Don't let any "guilt trip" get in your way. It's not worth it. The rest of your life awaits you.
2006-08-11 19:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by normy in garden city 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing.He'll get over it and in the meantime stop worrying about him focus on yourself and whats best for you.
2006-08-11 19:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and move on with your life.... "love your life, you live..
2006-08-11 23:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋