I love my girl friend soooo much but i cant make her ubderstnad that. I try my best to complete her every wish and I do so.She knows it very well and she told me that even.But she keeps telling me that I dont love her in the way she wants!Can anybody help me to find some ways so that I can make her understand that everything I do, I do for her.Before you answer, you should know that few years back I had a very bad time with my girl friend and got involved with another girl.With the new one I had sex for once. After that I felt something inside me and asked my girl friend to take me in her world again for a second chance.She got hurt but took me.Is this the reason she thinks that I do not love her anymore?I wonder why she took me again?Help me if anyone understands my feelings.Girls out there, do you have any solution for my problem? I can do anything for my princess.I really need your advise to make things happy between us. would appreciate if you do not make fun with my problem.
2006-08-11 11:58:36 · 13 answers · asked by cfj10tws 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girls want a man they can trust, a man that is their friend, a man who takes responsibility seriously, a man who listens to her and a man that makes her feel like the luckiest girl alive.
2006-08-12 17:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is feeling insecure as u have hurt her before and wonder if u will do this again. U will need to be honest and open with her and get her to communicate her feelings to u. Trust has to be built back into the relationship as it sounds like it was lost awhile ago. She obviously loves u otherwise she would not give u a second chance. Do u feel u have a future with her? If u do, tell her that and it might offer her the security she needs. It happended to a friend of mine too and she told him that this time they were going to get married otherwise she would not take him back :P! Good Luck and remember patience, perserverance and communication is the key : )!
2006-08-19 17:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Coco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. When you say that you give her everything are you giving her you? Do you listen when she speaks or are you distracted? Allow her to make some of the "couples" choices. Where to go or not. Do you know her intimate secrets? What makes her laugh? cry? Do you look into her eyes when you speak/ she answers? You can not complete her. That has to come from inside herself. Are you willing to go and speak with a professional? They can see the problems that are right in front of you that have been there so long... you just don't see them anymore. Seeking counseling tells her that you seriously want to make it work.
2006-08-19 18:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by loni1127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know all you can do is your best. Girls need a guy that she can trust and that will love her and just her with everything they have inside. She took you back and that means she cares. my boyfriend never cheated but he did things that were not cool for a boyfriend to do. i took him back but now i have trust issues so when he tells me he loves me and he does everyhting he can i still question his love sometimes. i dont really think she is questioning your love for her i think she is just a lil insecure and afraid you might repeat what you did before. Just sit down and talk to her and find out what she wants from you. let her know you love her and she is the only girl for you.
2006-08-18 20:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey_lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can show her a millions ways by doing a million things but if she still doesn't understand you should think about yourself because maybe there is something else she is seeking besides you. Personally if she loves you there's not to much you half to do besides loving her , being honest ,loyal and dedicated so think about you sometimes
2006-08-19 18:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not being so passive, I know myself, I like a little challenge, If I have to struggle to keep it,It seems to be better and lasts longer, So if this is something you would like to hang on to,Try making her guess!, It works for me! Good luck!
2006-08-19 17:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know the answers because the questions change constantly. Be yourself and no one else. She must love you for who you are or you're doomed.
2006-08-19 11:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by beatlepath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about personity and makeing the girl feel good about her self but in the same deal kinda play hard to get
2006-08-19 17:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she sonds hurt take her out to a romatick spot and restont but dont push that u love her just remid her
2006-08-19 16:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she wants you to love her and if you can't give it to her then maybe you aren't ment to be.
2006-08-11 19:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nichole L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋