2006-08-11 11:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by kayla r 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
Kayla, what do you want to do about the baby? You should decide and then it would be best to tell your mother. I am 27 and pregnant. When I was 15, I was in the same situation as you. Fortunately, I had a very cool mom and I did tell her the truth even though I did not need to. I ended up getting an abortion at Planned Parenthood which my boyfriend took me too. I was young and not in a position to deliver a baby or raise one on my own. I am pro choice but do not think abortions should be used as a form of birth control. You are very young honey.... too young to raise a child. I would consider adoption methods or if you must, have an abortion. And use this as a life learning lesson. If you are going to have sex, use protection - please.
2006-08-12 11:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by smiley_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Family life services in church groups will help if you have no intention of keeping the baby..you can give the baby for adoption but abortion is a NO...NO... That is sinful and imagine if it was you...your mum did not give you up so it goes to show how much she loves you!! Talk to her...am sure she will come up with a solution as all parents do! Good luck! The guy who did this is also responsible so get him to be involved in this...
2006-08-11 22:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by singirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hope you have a close and honest and open lines of communication with your mom. So you can muster all the courage to approach her and tell her of your dilemna. I'm sure she'll understand after the inital shock .And she can guide you to make the right decision.
Abortion is an option to be considered as you are very young and inmature and not fit to be a mother because you, yourself figuratively speaking is still a baby. Teenage pregnancy used to be a rampant prob. Now with sex eduction and availability of birth control pills, it should have minimized.if not totallyirradicated.
Obviously, you were not listening and gave in to your boyfriend's demand. Now the problem and related worries become your sole burden while he goes on his merry way. It's just not fair and you should have thought this out carefully and practice safe sex.
2006-08-11 18:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better be crying over this... oh my...
The best thing to do would be go to her crying and sobbing, and really upset, and she'll be more comforting. Just straight up tell her that you think you are pregnant. She may more comforting than yelling, but she is going to be way mad at you. She'll get over it soon enough and support you in this, but you will have some rough times.
Others said don't tell her, but she is going to be madder if you wait. Don't make her wait until you are showing or having the kid. Tell her now so she can prepare and help you with this.
2006-08-11 18:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes when teens tell their moms that their prengnat, the parent gets so mad that the mother hits them. Hopefully your mothers not that type and it could be easier. If she is that type, try to tell a family that you are close and cool with, and maybe both of you can tell her together. But most likely she's going to find out. I know you might be nervous, but hopefull it'll be ok.
GOOD LUCK Ma.
2006-08-11 19:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Ray 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least you don't have to tell your mom you have AIDS which could have happened because you had unprotected sex. Having children nowadays doesn't kill you.Stay in school and learn to spell pregnant so you can help your child if you're going to keep it You and your boyfriend are no longer teenagers now, you are parents and you need to get part-time jobs and take care of this kid unless you're going to put the weight on your family. I AM SO GLAD TO HEAR OF YOUR PLANS. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE CONTINUE YOUR EDUCATION. GET A GED (GENERAL EDUCATION DEVELOPMENT) I THINK, IF THERE IS A PROGRAM IN YOUR AREA. AND THEN GO TO COLLEGE AT NIGHT. THERE MAY BE A WORK FIRST PROGRAM UNDER SOCIAL SERVICES IN YOUR AREA THAT WILL PROVIDE FOOD STAMPS, MEDICAL SERVICES, AND SOME CASH ASSISTANCE, AND JOB TRAINING FOR 2 YEARS AND THEN YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN.
2006-08-12 21:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your pregnent, at least you got to enjoy some things, if you know what I mean.
2006-08-11 20:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by redbluegt 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Ring her up & tell in a worried voice, sobbing!
2006-08-11 18:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if it was my situation i wouldnt tell my mom i woiuld just leave....but its not in ur case u neva kno ur mother probably supports u and agree with it but i think u should tell ur mom jus straight up!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-08-11 18:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by sexydyme6002 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell her you really need to talk with her and hope she understands. good luck
2006-08-11 18:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by annie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋