my bestfriend just told me that she can't go to the waterpark tomorrow because she got her period. so i told her wear a tampon and she said "no way", i'm not very happy because i really want her to go,but i can't make her go if she doesn't want to,
what can i do to make her go? it won't be any fun without her
2006-08-11 11:21:12 · 15 answers · asked by LaBeLlAvItA 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Look, don't believe all this crap about the water pressure or whatever causing the flow of her period to stop. That is BS if I've ever heard it. Being in water causes the flow to wash away as soon as it leaves her body, hence making it appear to stop or slow down. It's all an illusion! If she isn't comfortable wearing tampons than there is nothing you can do but to be a good friend and understand. In a few days things should be back to normal and you can go then, or as someone else has alreay suggested, go to the mall, eat chocolate and try on a crap load of clothes. I would definitely appreciate you for that. Good luck!
2006-08-11 11:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Riah85 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way she can get in the water without having a mess is to wear a tampon. If she doesn't want to go you might just have to find someone else.
2006-08-11 11:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true, the blood flow never stops, it just thins.
She may get something called Toxic Shock Syndrome.
Many women suffer from this & are never able to wear tampons.
Just ask her what she want's to do. She may just want to rent a movie & hang around the home front. If you are unselfish & choose consider how she feels in this uncomfortable time, that to me is a very good friend.
2006-08-11 12:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by FireCrkR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants to try it, she could just wear a pad with maybe shorts or something like a wrap to keep on hand for a cover-up (in worse case scenario). If she gets in the water (like her whole lower body area) the blood flow usually stops for some girls. That's a big chance to take, but it's the best alternative I can think of. Hope it works!
2006-08-11 11:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by God'sPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make her go if she doesn't want to, and not all girls are comfortable wearing tampons.
Either find someone else to go with you, or find something else to do with her and go to the waterpark together another time.
2006-08-11 11:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could go somewhere else or if there's other things 2 do at the waterpark she could do that maybe. or u could pick another day so both of u can go.
2006-08-11 11:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nae Nae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look give her a tape or something and show her that you care for her tell her to bring a purse and put pads in it and go to the bathroom when it's time to change and if she dont go stay at home with her and have some fun
2006-08-11 11:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this sounds pretty gross buh when i was little and i didnt think about it much. my friend had her period buh she still when into the swimming pool. and no there werent any blood flowing around the water. actullay we all just enjoyed ourself.
so see going to a water park is nothing comparer to going in to a swimming pool when you have your period!!!!!!
so if your friend is afarid that if she get's wet in public, while she has here period....well guess what nothing well happen !!!!!!!
O YA AND THE TRICK IS USE A PAD!!!
\GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-08-11 11:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her to wear a liner as well as a tampon, no one will notice it...and if she leaks..something will catch it.
as long as you're in the water, nothing is going to come out of her anyways.
2006-08-11 11:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Laur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her the reason for not wanting to wear a tampon. maybe you will understand her reason and tell her that everything will be alright
2006-08-11 11:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by Princess Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋