My cousin wants me to go with her to a fair tonight. There is usually drinking, and im not much of a drinker. But my boyfreind is worried about me. He think's I'll cheat on him or something. I wont, but he says you cant be too sure with drinking. which is true. But I really want to go. I just dont want to keep him worrying. (btw im far away from home, so I cant invite him too)
Should I go? or stay here with my aunt?
oo and also please no lecturing. We have a safe drive there and home.
2006-08-11 11:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has reason to not trust me. But we have worked that through, and im pretty confident it wont happen again. O and these arn't my freinds, they are my cousins. So I get to meet them all for basically the first time. Another reason I'm thinking of staying home. my cousin and I are total opposits.. but ya I think I'll go for the fun of it..
2006-08-11 11:48:39 · update #1
You're only 15 so you shouldn't even be drinking. Since you're not much of a drinker it won't take much to get you to relax your values and do something you'll regret later. Hang out with your Aunt and maybe you can learn valuable life lessons from her since she is also having a rough time.
2006-08-11 12:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not much of a drinker then you have nothing to worry about. Just don't drink when you go. You can have fun with your friends and not drink. There should be no reason for you to stay home and not have some fun if you are far away from your BF. If you were together then I am sure you would be going together. If he cant trust you, you don't have much of a relationship anyway. Drinking or not if you love him you wont cheat.
2006-08-11 18:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by pinkpuppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to having a boyfriend he has to care above you
and that means he also has to trust you. And that works both
ways. There is allways a chance when drinking acures but you
have a responablite to your seft and your future . I hope this was
some help but at the same time its a lecture with care .
Sign Sweetie ,
2006-08-11 18:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to go, then you should go. If you do not want to drink then don't. If you go and don't like it there you should make sure that you can get back home safe. Tell your boyfriend that you really want to go and that you don't intend to cheat on him. If he can't trust you why are you 2 together anyway?
2006-08-11 18:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by ideal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go and not drink if you don't want to, then he couldn't say it was because of the drinking he didn't want you to go. Sounds to me like he just plain oh doesn't trust you.
2006-08-11 18:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not much of a drinker, then you shouldn't worry. Just limit your drinking! =)
2006-08-11 18:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have fun! How do you know that he wouldn't if he had the same opportunity.Besides, you need to prove you can be trusted.
2006-08-11 18:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go, he'll have to learn to trust u, thats wat a relationship is built on, as for drinking if u cant handle ur self dont drinks as much, better yet have somebody sober tell u when uve had enough, or dont drink at all
2006-08-11 18:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your boyfriend control you. go out and have fun with your friends. i don't understand why men always have to no where women are , I'm sure they don't like it when where always asking them where there going.
2006-08-11 18:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ,i will talk with your boyfriend for you and ok it,
2006-08-11 18:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by ken k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋