my boyfriend wanted to find his purpose in life.. So he decided to do his walk with God.. We never ended it, but he did not know when he would be returning. I know he loves me, but sometimes I get sad thinking he wont return. I dont know if I should go on without him and date other men... and how long should I even wait?
2006-08-11 11:11:29 · 46 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, I know this is hard but you should be supportive of him no matter what. If he is sincerely trying to find his way to God then he may need to be alone for a little while to do that. It will be worth it for you to be there and give him the space.. It is something that happens to people when they have major changes in their lives.. he may feel like he needs to work on his spiritual life before he can be the man he wants to be for you. It is better to have a man in your life who knows the Lord and has faith than one who would not take the chance of leaving to be a better servant to the Lord. You may feel like you are on the other side of God with him in the middle, but once God is in his life and yours, you can hold Him as the center of your relationship and watch it grow more than ever before. Let God's will be done in your life and not your own...He knows far more about what we need than we do. Take care.
2006-08-11 11:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by missesbean 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think since he made the decision without concern for your feelings- you should write him off as gone for good. Find someone who considers you a partner.
Date other men and don't look back. I'd be hurt and mad. Sure,
he went to find God. But, that doesn't excuse him from just
leaving you in the lurk. If he truly loved you he would have asked
you along.
When I miss someone terribly and am wasting my life waiting
for him to call or come back. I just think: Is he waiting for me
to call him? Probably not. Is he thinking of me before his head
hits his pillow? Probably not. If it were supposed to be more than what you had, he'd still be by your side.
I think it's a total cop-out to tell you that he's left you for God.
What can you say to that? Drop him. Even if he came back,
I'd be mad. Not at God, but he was inconsiderate to make such
a decision that effected both of you. It's basically telling you bye.
You're paths ran into a fork in the road. He took left- you took
right. But, he didn't even give you the option to go to the left
with him. Sounds like either a fanatic- or a jerk.
Don't get me wrong. I don't mean to seem disrespectful
to God. I just don't think that God would approve of the way
he treated you. Move on.
2006-08-11 11:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of sound like Ernest Hemingway ( I don't think i spelt his last name right) but any who sister if you love him that much maybe you should follow him in his foot steps, but if you feel that this is not what you want to do then maybe you should start dating other men. I have to tell ya if a guy really have his mind focued on one thing he is going to do it no matter what, and if he cant make you his priority then girl you should move on and find some one who would be proud to have you as their #1
2006-08-11 11:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. A relationship with God is a good thing. A love affair with God is a bit ridiculous. Consider it the same as if he left you for someone else, because ultimately that is the choice he made. Good luck.
2006-08-11 11:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when people walk with God, that means that they died. I don't see him coming back. If anything, god did you a favor by taking his punk a$$ out of your life. Find you a good faithful boy who's not interested in becoming a pope
2006-08-11 11:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you have found God to, no he will not be back to you. Besides his search could take a lifetime. So go on and date if that's what you really want to do. You could have started the minute after he left for his journey.
2006-08-11 11:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends.... what did he say before he left? if he told u 2 wait then wait because he'll be back if he ended yalls relationship 2 be with God then obviously go ahead and date others and if yall are meant 2 be then later on in the future yall will hook back up and get married
2006-08-11 11:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by ShaYnON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it even mean to do walk with God?!! How can he leave you for God? I thought God is always supposed to be there with you at all times. Oiyyy....just wait for him or something. Maybe he has some serious issues!
2006-08-11 11:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be back? If the Lord led him to do something then It's great that he does these things... Why is it about you? Dont you love him and want him to fulfill the purpose that God has for his life?
2006-08-11 11:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by comingofage03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a month. Remember, though, Enoch walked with God, and was not, for God took him.
2006-08-11 11:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋