My mom had recieved a good bit of money when my grandma died, when my younger sister found out she started to milk her of the money. My husband and I are not in it for the money but to see my mother and father who are in their 50's get a home of their own. But my younger sister which is taller then me and my mom has taken 20,000 from the house fund, refuses to get a job, get her diploma, and sleeps all day long and runs the roads. My mother is scared of my younger sister she has tries to tell her to get out and get a job, she throws a fit and curses my parents till she gets what she wants. My parents trying to be christians have their almost 20 yr. old daughter dressing provocative in front of my parents who do not support her dress style. My mom is afraid of being knocked out by her, now my mom is down to 50,000 dollars. WHAT CAN SHE DO TO GET HER OUT AND STOP GIVING MONEY TO HER?
2006-08-11 10:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by jack-o-lantern292006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She does it because your parents allow her to do it. Choose a day (or night) then you and your husband go over there and remove her, or when she is out put all her things outside and change the locks and if they are really afraid of her file for a restraining order against her, that will make it illegal for her to come within so many feet of them or to contact them. Its the only option you have, IF YOU CHANGE NOTHING, NOTHING WILL CHANGE! Tell them they aren't doing her any favors but letting her behave this way, she has to learn to take care of herself and they tried doing that the kind way, she didn't learn so now they MUST do this if she is going to have any kind of future. Your sister won't grow up and take any responsibility until she is forced to, the sooner that happens the better.
2006-08-11 11:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When your sister next go and runs the road your parents should change the locks have her clothers already packed and by the door waiting for her your parents should not be scared of their own child and should not be treated that way it is so disrespectful and as Christians their should put their foot down it s because of them not doing so that your sister is able to get away with the things that she is doing.
2006-08-11 11:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by jaci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she has no access to the cash. Tell her in no uncertain terms she is of age and because she is not even attempting to support herself she has to get out, or start paying rent of 1/3rd utils. Those are her choices if she chooses to not leave and to not get a job you can call the cops and have her removed How many times have we seen that. If Mom and Dad own the house she can not stop them. And if she hits them she will go to jail. They just have to have the courage of thier convictions
Just make sure that is what Mom and Dad want. If you want go over at the same time with your husband so she does not cause trouble and if she tries hubby should be able to deal with her. (I would for my wife in this situation)
2006-08-11 11:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to stand up to her and not be afraid if she thinks shes stronger and knows she'll cave in,she'll keep doing it until she gets everything....your mom also needs to show her authority. She needs to keep her daughter in line,regarless of her age she is still her daughter....Hire an attorney or lawyer or whatever and see if there's a way to get the money back.....As for the way she dresses I don't think she can do anything as she is 20 years old. If she still lives with your mother,she has to kick her out....cut her off from any money your mother is giving her and keep doing it until she goes out and gets a job.....Tell your mother to stand up to her DAUGHTER and get that money back,chances are your mother can not do this,so you will have to do it for her.Good luck,by the way I see your sister always got her way for a very long time.If she wasn't treated like this before she wouldn't be like this now.
2006-08-11 11:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are at fault for letting their spoiled brat get away with that...they are down to 50gs? Come on....get the locksmith to change the locks, kick her out and that is that. It's the best thing they can do for her. What are they teaching her now except how to disrespect them?
There is a point when to be a good parent you need to be a tough and cruel one. I'm sure even God would side with me on this one.
2006-08-11 11:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband should be present when your mom throws her out. Make a date when this is to be done, like on the weekend and then all three of you pack her things, open the door and throw her *** out!
2006-08-11 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 09:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by basinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh its called tough love, and its so "hard". I'd give her a dead line to get out, she will suck your parents dry with her selfesh ways, know it sounds bad , but I'd force her out with the police , if thats what it takes, may God be with you and your parents
2006-08-11 11:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Danish Proverb: "Faults are thick where love is thin."
2006-08-11 11:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋