PLEASE i beg of you help me !!!!?

Question

I TRUSTED MY DAD I TOLD HIM THAT I WISHED I COULD BE CLOSER TO MY MOM BECAUSE THE ONLY TIME WE TALK IS WHEN SHE TELLS ME TO DO MY CHORES I TOLD HIM NOT TO TELL MY MOM OR IT WOULD BREAK HER HEART BUT HE DID ANYWAY WHAT SHOULD I DO!????!!! THATS NOT THE FIRST TIME HE DID SOMETHING LIKE THAT HE DID 3 THINGS TODAY THAT I CAN'T BELIEVE HE DID

Answer 1

This sounds a lot like my family. I dont have the best relationship with my mom but it seems like everytime I talk to my brother or dad about it they always tell. They think that by communicating this it will help and I know in some ways thats prob. right but im a very private person. Now I dont tell anyone about my feelings but it sometimes gets to me. I would recommend finding someone you can talk to about it. I personally dont have anyone and am to the point of thinking about a therapist.

Answer 2

first of all , Is this a step father ? sounds like it to me . If I'm wrong sorry. I really do not know why he is doing this to you . But there must be something between you and your mom that has strained your relationship over the years. Sometimes there is a jealousy issue between mother and daughter. If it is you dad and he gives you special treatment and ,"lets stuff slide " then she may have some ill feeling towards you . Most parents do not keep secrets from each other. so they just tell what the hear and think to each other. Best thing I can think for you to do is sit down and talk it out with both of them ..

Answer 3

Tell your dad that he really upset you - try to be calm about it (you don't want to get in trouble). As far as your mom, write a letter to your mom if you think it would be easier than talking to her. Tell her everything you want to. Make sure to add at the beginning of the letter a sentence telling her not to be mad. Be as nice as you can while talking to your dad and writing to your mom. Maybe even talk to another family member you know that you are close with for ideas. Good luck!

Answer 4

ur dad has definetely proved hes not trustworthy so maybe its best not to tell him things unless you dont care if it gets around but dont feel bad alot of ppl "spill the beans" easily. Maybe a relationship with ur mom could b good, maybe she is more trustworthy and you can tell her stuff. but first you need to talk to her about having a closer relationship with her, tell her its not her fault, but u want to get o know her better, because you love her

-good luck

Answer 5

Don't tell you're dad anything else. Tell him he broke the connection between you too. Meanwhile, talk to your mom and starting with the occisional hey mom everymorning.

Answer 6

Poor you!!! Don't tell him anything anymore!! Maybe you should talk to him and ask him why he did that?But don't tell him anything anymore he has broken your trust of him.Why don't you go and ask your mom if you guys could go somewhere and talk or set out your differences.Also,tell your mom this:"I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings,It's just that I really want us to talk other mothers and daughters.I hope this helps!!!!!!

Answer 7

Your mom is probably hurt because she knows it is true! Maybe you should tell her how you feel and tell your dad that you trusted him with what you said, and he broke that trust.

Answer 8

Sorry honey, but it sounds like you can't trust him to keep his mouth shut. Try confiding in your mom instead. It may help you to feel closer to her too.

Answer 9

Dont tell your dad anything anymore. He broke your trust.

Answer 10

oy honey uer dad has proven hes not trustworthy dont ever tell him anything tell someone more mature and trustworthy, im not sure what the real story is but maybe he thought he was helping or he was trying to make her jealous... youch dosent sound good i think u should call a teen hotline to get some help. should be one in uer area. goodluck kiddo!