I cant figure this crap out
2006-08-11 10:28:27 · 11 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion when you have a child that child must be your number one priority. Your life and what you want no longer matters. You must do what is most important for your child. If your child is school age you would have to change their school and they would loose all their friends. No man is worth uprooting my son and changing his life.
2006-08-11 10:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by badkitty8080 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of things you haven't said. How old are your kids? How long have you known this guy? Do your kids know this guy? Just remember, your kids are the most important thing in your life, if moving them will throw their lives into a tizzy, then DON'T do it.
2006-08-11 10:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your kids come first. Make decisions based upon what's best for your kids. How can you not figure that out?
2006-08-11 10:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! That's why kids should only be made within a marriage because it's detrimental on them to have men come in and out of their lives. Chances are it won't work with this guy and they a need steady life. Please don't add drama to your kids lives. Focus on being a mom!!!
2006-08-11 10:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Katy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never move for a guy. If it doesn't work out somewhere down the road ....you are positively and unequivocably screwed !!!!
Make him move for YOU if the relationship is that important.
2006-08-11 17:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to be a positive influence in their lives, and a strong and supporting partner in yours - then by all means.
If you are just doing it to make your self feel good - then no.
2006-08-11 10:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are small.. they will make their home anywhere.. if they are older... as well. it might be a bit difficult...
if you are moving for a guy.. there can't be any 'ifs' about your relationship... is he really worth moving all your family ?
2006-08-11 10:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can tell you is if you have small children, do what's best for THEM.
2006-08-11 10:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If it doesn't work out, you've isolated yourself and them.
2006-08-11 10:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by CCTCC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your kids what they want
2006-08-11 10:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by PurpleHaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋