Not mine. Although it has a few charred cracks to show some the battles it's been through. BTW, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
2006-08-11 15:29:45
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answered by truthyness 7
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Once upon a time, it did. I realized that I was looking for people to help and while I earned the title of "Nicest Guy In The World" I also unconsciously picked up a lot of emotional baggage. I really cared and when someome leaned on my shoulder, the words did not go in one side and out the other.
Some honestly needed, then came (or I went to) those who used me ... which may be hard to phathom. Psychic Vampires, who drain emotions. They want help but won't help you.
It finally dawned on me, I have enough to worry about and to deal with, without everyone elses issues on my shoulders. So I leaned, took the bag of their sadness off my shoulder, and sat it down. Turned, and walked away.
I left with a lot of wisdom from being the psychiatrist and a great education in human nature, but mostly I walked away with less trouble. Realize who's problems are who's. Deal with your own first. Hopefully, others will take responsibility for their own.
I'm not heartless, I just use caution when someone poor mouths.
Funny, most people who need honest help, seldom ask. Interaction in this area, grows blessings.
2006-08-11 15:03:02
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answered by pickle head 6
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i think it's common for all people; everybody got a heartbreak.
You know the Japanese president? Koizumi or somehting. He's so handsome and geniune. But it's funny to hear that his wife has him divorced... I am surprised to read that. See, who guarantee no heartbreak?
If possible I really wanna ask The GATE, a billionaire and successful man of his life, if he's ever experienced it? Aha,,,, I believe...
2006-08-11 18:58:29
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answered by Luck charge 4
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No, I am very careful with giving my trust to people. It takes a long time for someone be considered a friend, After that it takes even longer to be considered a boy friend. This is one way I protect myself from heartbreak.
2006-08-19 09:33:33
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answered by iam1shoppindiva 3
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Who welcomes heartbreak?
2006-08-18 05:00:38
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answered by Funchy 6
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Hmmm....i don't believe of you're able to try this in accordance with solar signal on my own. So i am going to respond to in accordance with Venus, Mars and what's on your V and VII residences (answer remains an similar besides the undeniable fact that - hehehe) and that is in my attitude: #a million Water indicators (fantastically maximum cancers) because they connect themselves to those they prefer and do not probably let bypass, so that they could be way up there on heartbreaks i could imagine. #2 Earth next with Taurus being intense up there too because of there ability to confirm that you're what they're in search of for and then stay and stay and stay....both maximum cancers and Taurus look to set their love pastimes as aims of theirs. #3 Then i could say fireplace indicators with Leo topping the fireplace chart with their susceptible/delight area being liable to heart spoil the most and #4 Then the Air indicators with Libra being the heartbroken leaders of the Airs.
2016-11-24 20:40:46
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answered by ? 4
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Yes but only because I love with my whole heart and jump in feet first. It usually takes a while for me to realize I'm in a no-win situation. And I heal very very slowly. It's a curse. By the way Mel, I hope you had a very happy birthday!
2006-08-19 08:11:55
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answered by lovelee1 6
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One cannot value and cherish what one has if one is not fully aware of how it would be or feel if lost.
Heartbreak, however troubling and excruciating when it occurs, is natural and normal. It is the reinforcing reminder of one's capacity to value and cherish.
And it is also the invitation that one should -and needs- reach out again to value and cherish even more, to build upon the capacities already learnt, with someone new.
2006-08-12 09:29:20
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answered by Doctor Rock 2
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It used to. It was lovely... fancy lettering etched deeply and lined in gold... glow in the dark so that any shmuck could see that I was theirs for the bruising...
then I met my hubby and he took that awful sign and put it through the chipper, burned the pieces to ashes and sent the ashes off on the wind.
2006-08-11 10:32:44
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answered by celtiarose 4
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I've seen enough heartbreak to sometimes think it does.
2006-08-17 10:49:15
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answered by Bullchit 5
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Of course not! L ove Kakashi Hatake. Iknow what your thinking your in love with a cartoon person? Well yeah I am.
2006-08-19 10:33:51
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answered by Julie W 1
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