I'm going out with a fantastic guy and I fancy him to bits. The feeling seems to be mutual but he has a pretty bad reputation for screwing girls over. He seems great to me! Are there any signs I should watch out for?
2006-08-11 10:24:00 · 9 answers · asked by Moi? 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
there's a book... called "he's not that into you".
get it. read it. study it. live by it.
they're gurus.. they pretty much have it figure out. and that book lays it out in black and white.
it's a girl's guide to player decoding. :)
2006-08-11 10:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by brooke44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Similar to the answer above. If someones serious they'll have no problems wanting to show you off to their friends and family. If they make excuses for not doing so then they arent really interested at all. If you get texts and calls every now and then just to say hi then thats a good sign too. To put it simply, anything they do because they dont need to shows they're interested. If they only do the bare minimum then show them the door
2006-08-11 10:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After what I have been through, all men are the same. You cannot really tell whether they want you or what you've got. Trust your instincts and watch him like a hawk.You can live with a man for 20 years and still not know him Why don' t you visit my site at gloriajones321@yahoo.co.uk it's a yahoo360 site. Then perhaps you will understand what I mean.or give me your e mail address and I will send you an invite.
Gloria
2006-08-12 06:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by gloriashealth@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try and suss if hes only after one thing.
Is he really listening to what youre saying? or is it just going in one ear and out the other?
Do you do all the running? Or does he? It should be equal.
If you told him you werent interested in sex...how long would it take him to back off?
If you have a worry then it probably because you know in your heart that somethings not right.
Dont trust him. He'll break your heart!
Haha, I'm not too bitter!
( hes not called Garry is he???)
2006-08-11 10:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Ah! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "He's just not that into you" and it's by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Truly, get it. It should be given to every girl on entrance to senior school.
At least you'll be prepared and know what signs to look out for.
2006-08-11 10:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he only wants to see you when he comes home from a night out, he doesn't want to go out to dinner or the cinema with you and he has no intention of introducing you to his folks. Also, he doesn't tell you much about his personal life.
Good luck and screw his brains out...that way, he'll remember you for being the only girl who paid him his due's! He'll love you for it!
2006-08-11 10:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get this gut feeling, under all that heart on your sleeve stuff, because somewhere in your soul you know its right or worng , Good luck
2006-08-11 10:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you don't :-I
nah, only joking! just look at their body language and see, but some people are really good at 'playing serious'
2006-08-11 13:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by daniel4joyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mention marriage, that should do it! joanna sexy knickers.
2006-08-11 10:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by joanna sexy knickers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋