My gf of 6 years is bi. We had a threesome once and it was fun but its been a long time. Should we get married or is she going to run off with a woman at some point? She's already gotten pretty chatty with some other bi women online. I don't know if I should bother marrying a woman like that.
2006-08-11 10:23:46 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to?unless you aren't into monogamous relationships then if you Marry your Bi gf,you will always either have to share her with another woman or when shes out of sight you will always wonder if shes with another woman unless you and her are into threesomes if that's the case then why not Marry her Lol no but seriously you should really think about this because if shes not seriously committed to only you then it defeats the purpose.
2006-08-11 10:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really is up to you. I mean you know right now and have known for over 6 years that she is bisexual. So if she does eventually start having an affair after you guys are married, you are totally running your own risk in that department. Or if you get married and she brings up that she wants to have more threesomes than you do, you are also running that risk. Because after all when you marry someone that is pretty much saying "I'm accepting you for who and what you are and I still love you regardless." So if your willing to allow her to be with women after you marry and are cool with it go for it. But don't expect her to change who she is, if you start getting jealous because you know who and what she was about for over 6 years prior to your marriage.
2006-08-11 17:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is marriage is marriage. It doesn't matter who you marry - they are committed to you, and you to them.
If you are worried about your women running away with another women after you get married - you should be talking to her about that. Chances are, she has the same feelings about marriage as you. Now, if you think that your threesomes are going to continue after you get married - then your should also talk to her about that. My feelings are inviting another person into you and your wifes bed is breaking your vows to each other - and will lead to trouble. Besides, if you are doing it right, there is no need for another women.
2006-08-11 17:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, no...I would not marry a woman who would have interest in ANY other person than me. But not everyone thinks like me...If it is something you could handle and you wouldnt mind then go for it. But just take into consideration how you might feel if you marry her and then she runs off woth another woman. To me, cheating is cheating, regardless of sex.
2006-08-11 17:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard enough to complete with other men let along other women.
Move on and find a girl that reduces the chance of messing around by 50%
2006-08-11 17:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you take the risk of her leaving you just like all the rest of us, being bi has nothing to do with it. You do know, however, she probably will not be satisfied with just you since she swings both ways. I wouldn't get legally involved with her, if things are going the way you want now, just leave it as it is.
2006-08-11 17:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! In order to remain faithful to you she would have to compromise her sexuality....would you? could you for an entire lifetime?? NO. Some common sense is all you need to answer this one. Why have you spent 6 years in something that can't possibly work?
2006-08-11 17:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,don't marry her.She sounds like she really doesn't know what to do.She may wind up cheating on you.You are better off just staying bf and gf.If you marry her,you might be unhappy.
2006-08-11 17:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by turtle_rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not i wood u get the best from both worlds u might even find her in bed with a nuthr women
2006-08-11 17:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are looking for. If you want to be exclusive than you may want to seek out a different person.
2006-08-11 17:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋