2006-08-11 10:15:26 · 62 answers · asked by MRS.P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanx to every one that answered my Q but i wasn't trying to have sex we already decided that we were going to wait. i was asking about my BF not him. and he is not a child molestor he is like my best friend too
My name is MRS.P cuz my last name starts with P
2006-08-11 12:30:20 · update #1
you are going to end up landing HIM in jail.....do you want to do that to someone you like? ~~~
2006-08-11 10:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by AMY 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
He better mind his p's and q's or he will end up in jail. Sorry to bust your bubble, but that's the law. If he gets too involved with you, he could also be labelled a sex offender for the remainder of his life. If you really like him, you will both have to wait until you are older. But for his sake, you should both try and cool it.
It's hard when you're a teenager because 6 years is a big difference then. If you're 26, dating a 32 year old guy it's not that big a deal. And if you're 56 dating a 62 year old guy, nobody even cares!
2006-08-11 10:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP!!! First of all, there is a nearly 7 year age difference. Second, he could get in some serious trouble if you two start seeing each other. I'm not talking about someone getting grounded, I'm talking about the possibility that he would be labelled as a sexual offender if your parents (or anyone else) wants to pursue the matter.
You're 13... find a guy closer to your age.
2006-08-11 10:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think it is that weird, however the law will throw is assets in jail faster than a corvette. If your parents and he are in agreement he can get permission to date you. However, I think you should restrain from trying to develop a physical relationship with him for a few years. If it is true love, that can wait for a while. And the Raider King is giving odds of 32750-1 against you two making a lifelong commitment. If either of you die in the next ten years the bet is considered nall and void.
2006-08-11 10:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know those feelings, but think of it this way, if something was to like sexually go on between you guys, then he broke up with you or your parents found out, then he'd be in so much trouble. Give it a while, and wait until your older. If those feelings are still there in a few years, then so be it, but just remember though.. your only 13. You have your only life to date. Enough life, and be a kid.
2006-08-11 10:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by laciarlene89 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No guy 19-20 years old should be hanging around a 13 year old girl -- in fact, he should NOT WANT TO hang around a 13 year old if he had any sense about him. He is bad news. Stay away from him and interact with guys your own age.
2006-08-11 11:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do what i did at 13.I would not listen to no one and i end up married
2 kids by 15 yrs old and divorce 6 yrs later.It sure mess up my life.It is
hard to fine another man that will take on other man kids.I'm not saying this will happen to you.The only thing you are going through is puppy like
Go fine something else to do ,try and stay clear of him.
2006-08-11 10:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should consider a few things here first of all. this person..he is much more mature mentally and experienced than you are, and you are at many many risks for dealing with someone in that stage, whether its breaking your heart or hurting you physically and emotionally. And sweetie, lemme tell ya--im 20, and there are many things that you need to learn right now that you shouldnt have to find out later. At 20, he is an adult compared to you and when they say they like you--they can just be playig games with your mind. There are many games that males will play to hurt people and to make them feel as though they are special and break your heart and its not right. You need to be focused on your studies and family not boys at this time. I honestly think that it is a crush you may have for him but it wouldnt be suitable for you to necessarily be dating at thins time--especially not someone as experienced in that age range. there are many dangers you can encounter and I would hate to see/hear that happen to anyone as young as you. Please, for your future and family's sake--dont worry about boys right now. Just you, family, and school. Be blessed.
~Azia~
2006-08-11 10:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by ~*SpHyRyT*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! Sorry but, a 19 year old will only be interested in a 13 year old for one thing. No matter how sweet he is to you. Concentrate on boys your own age.
2006-08-11 10:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the age doesnt matter but in ur case it does so just wait a couple more years and just think if u realy like him that happened to me once but i was 14 and he was 21 but i waited a couple of years and now were together and were happy so good luck i no u can wait just a couple more years and than see if it works out k good luck :)
2006-08-11 13:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by bOSsy b1tC8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 when I met my ex, who was 20. We were with each other for 7 years. Everyone is different.
Honestly, I would approach your parents with your feelings, and ask them to have him over and talk to them, and help you decide, as well as advise you if they give you the go ahead. Take things slow, you are still young.
2006-08-11 10:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by Elie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋