2006-08-11 10:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
good. friendship with benefits. o.k.
2006-08-11 10:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've had a lot of experience living with different people - some in the dorms, and others outside of the dorms.
I moved into an apartment with my best friend from school, and at first, it was great!
Then, after about a month things started going bad. She knew that I would clean up after her, and she took advantage of it. Even after I asked her, she refused to do her share of chores. She ruined my two expensive wood tables and never paid for them. The worst was when she started paying bills late, which really messed up my credit.
Most of the cases I've heard of best friends living together didn't work out. You see each other too much and tend to let things go without talking about it.
I suggest that if you really want to move in w/ur best friend, talk to her before you do so. Make a list of rules and guidelines to live by. This will make living together a little easier once you know you're both on the same page.
Good luck!
2006-08-11 10:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Idea, there are things about people that you just don't need to know. When it's not your friend it's easier to blow off. But when it's a best friend it's like your joined at the hip, you live together, you party together, you chill together. Give it what 6 months and you'll be at each others throats over some dishes or toilet paper, it's not worth it. I always lived witha freind of a freind. Not a complete stranger but not a very close freind. That way I never got too mad, cause the relationship wasn't that deep
2006-08-11 10:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tricky one. Do you have the same type of living styles? Is one of a slob and the other a neat freak? Is one a night owl and the other has to work early? Does want like having a lot of company and the other is kind of a loner? Is one a saver and the other a spender. Is your friend responsible with bills. You can be friends with someone and still not be able to live with them. On the other hand if you two are compatible in a living arrangement you can have a lot of fun together.
2006-08-11 10:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't know until you do it for some it is for others no. but just remember to talk about what everyone is going to pay before moving in together and get everything in writing even though youll are friends you never know.
2006-08-11 11:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by dsexyone21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a good thing and a bad thing good thing you two enjoy the company bad thing you two can have a fight good thing you can stay up and gossip all day and night bad they can quite bit of a snob so its your decision
2006-08-11 10:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard..I had a very close friend that stayed with me in our apartment, and we ended up in this huge fight and I ended up with my own place and bad credit. you may want to think things though first, and then set boundaries if you botuh decide to.
2006-08-11 10:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~*SpHyRyT*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cool I lived with mine for a year and things were okay between us. But everyone is different
2006-08-11 10:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by clnavarro82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its true
it will make or break ur friendship
depends how much ur respect each other, who has most power, etc
2006-08-11 10:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by MyBalls4U_SPAMMER~Addict~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real bad
2006-08-11 10:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by The Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋