My friend has stopped calling me since i ve been with my boyfriend. when i see here she hardly even wants to stop and talk. I have seen her looking at my boyfriend like she fancies him, a few times. she says that i dont call her but she doesnt call me. she dosent evn com around my house anymore.whether he is with me or not . Do you think she could be jealous of what me and my boyfriend share? or was she never my friend. why cant she just be happy for us?
2006-08-11 09:58:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i also went aroud her house and i saw that my number was saved in her fone as 'ho dis' she said she did know who it was but every time i called her that showed up on the fone. i had that number for 3 months that was enough time for her to change it. she said it was meant to say 'who dis'
2006-08-11 10:31:19 · update #1
BOTH!!!!
2006-08-11 10:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably not juelous she just feels like your friendship is being threatened by the relationship you have with your boyfriend. Let her know you still love her and tell her that no guy could ever fill the space thats reserved in your heart for her. But only say it if you mean it. Don't lie. Talk to her.
2006-08-11 10:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be a combination of reason for her behaviour. Let's just say, your time with your boyfriend have disturbed a little in your friendship. Maybe it's got nothing to do with her fancying your boyfriend.
2006-08-11 10:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by RealArsenalFan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slightly confusing mate. could be that her and your man are more than an item that you and you man are. lol
Must be more to this than what you are saying?
If I was mates with someone I would know their phone number, even if they did change it? And i would definitely not have it as ho dis............
Think you need to rethink on the whole friendship thing you have going.
2006-08-11 10:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by ooooh look @ me, lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you dont notice anything's different and keep calling her as normal. She'll come round eventually. At the moment she feels a bit betrayed by your new relationship. Give her time and patience.
2006-08-11 10:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know what is bothering her until you directly ask her what the problem is. Maybe she feels that you don't aren't a match or maybe she resents you for spending more time with him than her. In other words, communication with her will lead you to your answer. All we can do here is speculate.
2006-08-11 10:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by larceny'sghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a new relationship enters our life our close ones feel threatened.its natural.tell her point blank what u feel about the whole situation and assure her that no one can replace her. give her sometime.even if she doesnt respond give her atleast one call once in day.she should see reason eventually.if she doesnt it will be her loss.
2006-08-11 20:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you friend is doing the right thing to keep away if she feels jealous or fancies your man. leave her alone and get on with your relationship. new friends will come along. this friendship will only get worse if you try to keep it going.
2006-08-11 11:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her why she's stopped calling you? Tell her you two can still be friends. Maybe she doesn't like your boyfriend, that may be why she looks at him.
2006-08-11 10:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because shes just jealous of you confront her about tell her how you feel about it let out see how both of you can work out the problem.
2006-08-11 10:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just maybe
she's in love with your boyfriend
and she feels that you have taken him away from her even though she never really had him and its just hard for her to even look at you or you guys together
dont know if this is true i just look at things negatively
2006-08-11 10:05:31 · answer #11 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋