I want her to feel happy and loved (she has had a rough time lately )
2006-08-11 09:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by Wondering Faith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all...... Just the thought of you posting this question shows a real man loving and adoring his wife is a great start..
It leads me to believe that really you don't need any advice here but rather a little of understanding on your part. For you...
To care about her feelings is very special and should make her see how much you care..
Let her know how great you think she is and reassure her that together you will get through whatever she has been dealing with.
Allow her some time for herself and suggestion if she likes it give her time to get lots of exercise... That is what works for me...
I myself have only been a hand full of times through summer break... It just gets more difficult in the summer for me... With our children home.. So if you have kids, her escape away for a while is key in making her feel good...
The very best way is through communication and the gift you already have with in yourself...
You know her well, you know yourself well. The answer lies with in you... Better than anyone can say.
Best wishes to you both...... ♥
Attention is one thing but really time for her alone to think of herself some is important... Then add in the attention but not in a suffocating way..... You are a man so I know you get what I mean.....!
2006-08-11 10:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Princess ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a sweet guy. I wish my man was like that. But that's another story. lol
I would suggest taking a weekend and treat her like a queen. You don't have to be rich to do this. You could write poetry. Sit her down and tell her how much you love her and why. Tell her you love the way she moves, the way she speaks, the way she looks at you. These are suggestions. If you have some money take her to a nice dinner and give her a bracelet or earrings. Hold her. Flowers work well too.
Tell her that you realize she's had it rough lately and you just want to take care of her for a day or two. Do everything. Make her a dinner. What's her favorite thing to do? Do it with her even if you hate it. Ask her if she needs to talk about whatever the "rough time" is. Maybe she would just like to unload her feeling with someone safe. That someone should be you. Take her face in your hands look deep into her eyes and say "I adore you, you are so special to me, and I wouldn't want you to hurt" or something like that.
Just take care of her. She'll know that you're trying. Good luck to you and her too! Your question left me feeling happy so I'm sure you could make her happy too!
2006-08-11 10:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First give her a lot of attention out of the bedroom. Kisses,hugs,holding hand. Tell her how beautiful you think she is. Buy her some roses or whatever flowers she likes best. She is the one that needs to make herself happy though no one can make her happy. She is the one that needs to know she is sexy, you can help though with the suggestions I gave you. Good luck
2006-08-11 10:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook her dinner run her a bath light some candles buy her a sexy teddy to put on after her bath and make sweet love all night to her. Give her body as much pleasure as possible with that you can't go wrong if you make the night all about her.
2006-08-11 10:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karing,
What a sincere question. I hope I can help you out. Plan a weekend getaway together. Buy her roses and wine and take her out dancing. Enjoy take-in in your room and talk about each others goals in life while every now and again, stroking her hair and telling her you love her. When the moment is right, tell her that she is the woman of your dreams and you are so happy to be the one who witness' her life. Trust me, you will make her night. Good luck
2006-08-11 09:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lee Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how much you appreciate her and the things she does for you. Cook her dinner, give her a foot massage, if you have kids, offer to babysit and send her out with girlfriends or to the spa for a few hours. Actions speak louder than words my friend--be more attentive in the bedroom...ask her what she wants for a change and then do it!
2006-08-11 09:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is a very lucky woman to have a caring husband like you!!! Take her out to dinner and go shopping for some sexy lingerie.
2006-08-11 12:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by No_S_Kape 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come home and just wisk her off into the bedroom! or spontaneously (sp?) just walk up to her and look her in the eyes and tell her she's beautiful. just start doing little things like that here and there. write her a love note she'll find later, take her on a picnic. just go out of your way a little to show her
2006-08-11 09:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what SHE wants....women often tell you what they need but men just don't hear it.
Its summer...take her on a nice dinner cruise on the lake...walk along the boardwalk, listen to a jazz band or go to a piano bar or somewhere you can dance....
MAGIC fellas....a woman wants to feel alive and desired...
2006-08-11 09:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how good she looks and when she walks by you or you walk by her give her a little pinch on the butt. Act like kids again when you are around her. Come up from behind her and tell you "You are looking good". Show her that you desire her.
2006-08-11 09:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋