Should I Stay With her?

Question

I was with my girlfriend for about 7 or 8 months then we broke up for 4 months because she wanted to be with her friends instead of me so I broke it off. Then I got back with her after 4 months and now I've found out she lies soo much for no apparent reason. I don't know whether I should stay with her or not I love her soo much but I don't want to be with a liar... could someone give me some advice? Thanx

Answer 1

I guess it depends on what she's lying about. Some people just embellish the truth to make themselves appear better. Talk to her about this.

Answer 2

You should break up with this girl immediately. Any relationship must have trust in order to have any kind of a chance to survive. Already, you don't have trust. You are on Yahoo! Answers asking for advice on should you stay or should you go. This is not a good sign my friend.

I know loving and losing is very, very tough. In the long run, having loved and lost will be a blessing for you when you can look back and see how much heartbreak you saved yourself by losing earlier rather than later. Please, I implore you, don't wait until there is a more serious relationship with a great deal more to loose before you get the picture. The writing is already on the wall for you. All you need to do now, is heed the fore warning you have been given.

Answer 3

It sounds like she's the guy in the relationship. Women go thru this everyday. Lying is no good in any relationship but let's be honest we all do it from time to time. Mostly is about small little things. Now if you love her give her another chance but you need to let her know what you want out of the relationship. She also sounds like she may not be ready to settle down just yet. You need to be patient if you love her and if it really bothers you; you need to move on. Best of luck.

Answer 4

Well if she is a liar then you should move cause no one wants a liar in their corner. But at the same time if you really love her that much and can't seem to be without her then you have to just accept her for who she is and tough it out the hard way.

Answer 5

She may be lying about little stuff now, but if she knows she can get away with it then she'll start lying about big stuff, like cheating or something like that. It's obvious that you can believe a word she says, and after a while that's going to start eating at you, especially if you start to get jealous over something, you'll be like is she lying or telling the truth ... I would get a new girl, you deserve someone you can trust and who won't lie about everything!

Answer 6

There's a problem when you expected her to be w/you all the time. That's why you broke up, so find someone who's willing to be w/you 24/7 and let their life revolve around you.

Answer 7

Well, just break up with her again and find you someone that can be with you without all the lies. I understand you think you love her but, there are more fish in the sea sweetie. Keep looking you will find a good one...............

Answer 8

Dude, she dumped you for her friends. She's also a liar. Hmmm...maybe she lied about dumping you for the friends and she dumped you for another dude...You can't be in a relationship without trust and you can't trust her.

Answer 9

if you love her, you would talk to her about her habit of telling lies and encourage her to limit it, and accept her lying ways for that is who she is...
i know it sounds confusing, but if you love her wholeheartedly...you shouldnt have seen this as a problem with having a relationship with her

*what im saying is, i dont think you love her...so move on

Answer 10

Ummm, you want to stay with someone who lies to consistently,am I the only one that finds this question redundant?