Why do people call me a slut???

Question

I don't get it all the other people i know wear the same things i wear and they are never called a slut. i wear tank tops hulter tops short sleeves and tube tops. my pants are mini skirts tight jeans and short shorts. Like everone else i know.

Answer 1

you should not worry what other people think . remember you only live once so don't waste your time worring what other people think about you.

Answer 2

well maybe u look better then ppl who call u this
i think u should just blow off what ppl say or ask them how do u think I'm a slut can u do u have a list of names of the ppl i have slept with or are u just a insecure small person who fills so bad about there self they need a bag of someone else......girl don't take it no more back them in a corner and let them have it.....BUT I CAN SAY THIS WILL NEVER CHANGE PPL JUDGE PPL ALL THE TIME WHY I DON'T NO.....U ALWAYS HEAR PPL SAY I DON'T JUDGE OTHERS WOW IF THIS WAS ONLY TRUE......IF U THINK ABOUT IT I ALMOST BET THERE HAS BEEN A DAY U THOUGHT SOMETHING BAD OF SOMEONE.....SAME WITH ME......BUT NOW I TRY AND PUT MYSELF IN OTHERS SHOES....p.s. do ur own thing this is what makes the diff. between a Strong minded person and a week minded person

Answer 3

It depends.

One thing that you must know is that clothes do not make you. The person that you are is determined by the way you act...how you feel...how you think, and how you percieve the world.

It's okay to wear the things that you wear, as long as you're wearing them because it's what you're comfortable in. Never wear clothes to try to impress anybody...

And always remember...since you are a young lady, no matter what clothes you are wearing, carry yourself as a young lady. Respect yourself in ALL that you do, because if you can't respect yourself, nobody else will.

Answer 4

I'd say the answer is "politics."

Let's face it: You must have a good body. Thus, to another female, you are a serious threat: someone who looks better than them. As a result, they think of political ways of discrediting your beauty. A common way is by using your positive trait, that is to say, your sexy body, in a negative light.

The most effective way of doing this is by saying that you are a s lut.

Don't worry, us guys know you look hot and won't get swayed by their biased opinions.

I have lots of female friends and I've noticed a very distinct pattern. If we're socializing and then a beautiful women is in their present, the conversation naturally becomes more negative as if she wants me to focus on unattractive things so that I do not focus on the obvious beauty that has livened up the presence of wherever we are socializing.

A smart female will simply acknowledge that some women are plain, down right hot. An unwise female will try to discredit her.

I've known women who were as perfect as Mother Theresa and looked as beautiful as Andrea Corr but STILL, I'd notice that women would comment on that one little piece of lint on her shoe string and conclude that she has issues at best.

Yeah right, she'd have "issues" when compared to perfection.

Answer 5

people normally behave that way when they feel jealous about the style of clothes that you wear, the amount of attention that you are getting or maybe she likes someone that is interested in you and he is not giving her the time of the day. no matter what you do people are still going to talk, the more they talk the more you step out in style. don't be bother by them you know who you are and that is all that matters. OK.

i always say "if you have it, flaunt it."

remember people only talk you when they are envious.
girl you got something that these people want.

Answer 6

They're not insulting the clothes you are wearing.

They are insulting /you/.

I can't tell you why they are, in particular, insulting you: but I do know that if they're doing this to you regardless of what you are wearing, then you might as well tell them to go and hang themselves and wear what you like - not what the others wear.

If they must insult and harass you, you might as well do what pleases you, not what pleases them. And if doing your own thing shoves defiance in their face, so much the better. Your ability to show initiative, to lead rather than slavishly follow, will be a slap in their faces for their presumption and their hatred of you.

All day. Every day.

Forever.

Answer 7

My guess is that your behavior has something to do with it. Do you suppose you could stop slutting - I mean sleeping - around?

FYI, I recommend staying away from tube tops...One of the best girl fights I ever saw involved one poor chick continually pulling her tube top up, while the other chick pulled it down, then punched her in the face.

Answer 8

I wear tube tops and I am NOT a slut, They are jealous of u coz you look better than them and a lot of boys like you, f♥ck 'em and have fun!!

Answer 9

well i get called that a lot & i'm only 13 but they arn't just jealous because you don't have to dress the way u do to get called that it can also depend on ur attitude so wat evr u do to get called **** try to fix it maybe 1 thing u can change is ur outfit try wearing loose pants and more t-shirts not tanks, halters, and tubes tops pple will think diff. of u

Answer 10

human beings call brunettes uptight and bookworms(there's a stereotype for each thing, blondes are not the in straightforward words ones contained in the boat)... there is also continuously going to be someone who has something advise to say. merely ignore about it. 2d, you're in straightforward words helping the count number with the help of calling stupid moments "blonde moments". stupid/humorous moments human beings have...have no longer something to do with being blonde. So hence they ought to no longer be said as such.

Answer 11

Maybe you anybody else you know is a **** and you should be different, not a copy of some stupid rolemodel mike Lindsay Lohan.Being a clone will make you a zombie.lol