dream question.?

Question

i occasionally have a dream where i start to date a guy and he's everything i've ever wanted but then he says he loves me and i either get up and leave or start crying. what does that mean? it isn't one guy in particular and i usually don't see a face. just recently the guy in my dream has asked me to marry him on a plane, i said yes because it was in front of like 50 people but in the limo ride to his house i had to say no and started crying. what does it all mean?

i don't have a boyfriend or any guy friends for that matter

Answer 1

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Answer 2

First, let me start by saying Forever Knight was the greatest night-time series, ever! Now, that being said, let's go back to the dream: It could be that the person in your dream (many call that your sub-conscious-self )is having problems accepting commitment because that part of you does not feel worthy of being loved so deeply. Something in you is searching for that one man you can believe--or even one person (maybe it is not a man that you really want at all?--being that the men in your dream are faceless could represent an aversion to the entire sex). Perhaps you are feeling pressured by others to make choices right now (not necessarily about marriage or love, but other important choices), and you do not feel prepared to take one straight-path.Perhaps there is a little confusion in your life, and, being unable to commit to an answer, or to accept the answers others have provided for you is making you feel stressed. Don't make decisions based upon how others feel--you want to separate emotion and logic right now. The only way you will feel closure is to choose the direction that will best secure your future, and if it means giving up love or the thing you think you love, it will be very difficult, but, in the long run, rational, clear-headed thinking will take you the farthest and make you the happiest in the long life you have ahead.

Answer 3

Foreverkniight:

I noticed on another question you expressed interest in losing 170 pounds. For you to have that much weight you can afford to lose, you would qualify as being morbidly obese. I'm not saying that to be mean, I am overweight myself. I simply want to point out that there may be a coorelation between your weight and your apparent ambivelance towards the opposite sex.

Overeating is often a way to medicate a psyche that is in pain. The endorphines produced by excess eating can act as a sedative and temporarily "stuff" the pain, allowing us to function more or less "normally". I think your recurring dream is giving you a window to the source of your pain.

A girl's first love is her father. If this love is unrequited, the results can be devistating. In your dream, I believe you are regaining the lost love of your father, but of course as a practical matter, marraige will not work. Your psyche is illustrating to you in stark terms that the man you choose as a mate cannot compensate for the lost opportunity with your father.

Your unconscious mind may be spurring you to action. It is time to address what is eating you before there are serious health consequences. If you enter into relationship with these issues unresolved, the results could be devistating. I suggest that you seek counseling from a trained professional that can act as a tour guide, as the both of you confront these scary monsters that are beginning to disrupt your life. I do wish you well.

Answer 4

Well, let me try

dream of a guy/date with face = your desire
to be marred = commitment
Marry on a plane = desire to be wanted
say yes because of 50 people = peer pressure
crying in the dream = regret

It is so obvious that you are afraid of commitment. To you, marriage is a pressure or social pressure. You don't want to let people down and you projected that dream and say yes in the dream. But you regret later on as well in dream. That shows you that you may be insecure about marriage. Yes, you have desire about a guy. However you still cannot pass through your own wall. You have this WALL or GATE rather to block. You can view everything beautiful from outside, but you are just afraid to commit. A guy without face is a symbol of your desire and be married in a plane is perhaps your fantasy. Maybe it just suggests that you want something special and different from others.

In conclusion, this dream is about you and how you view marriage. In a word, you are afraid of changes and commitment

Answer 5

Hi,
it is a simple thing and often such dreams come to many people.

First you are seeing a lot of guys in the dreams.
It means your subconscious mind is looking for a good MAN friend. (Since you are seeing men in the dreams).

But due to some reason you are not able to find the right guy you want to have relationship with or something ... right now. So your subconscious is giving you that pleasure in dreams (as a proxy).

Don't worry about the dream, you are doing the right thing.
May be your standards for a good friend are high and these dreams are no reason for you to lower your standards.
Keep waiting and keep looking for the righ man with the discretion that you are having. It is your conscious preferences about what sort of friend you want and that can change with time.
Also it is your decision anytime, how much close you want to get to another guy or a person and when.

The second part about a guy proposing you to marry him and you saying him 'yes' in the plane but you strart crying in the car has two following interpretations of your mind (and subconscious mind working) :

Though you may be knowing (now or in the past) a guy who was interested in you but you are not 100 % sure you want to marry him. The second part reveals your nature, you are a person who cares for others, is conscious of not putting down others in front of many people and you are considerate. At the same time you try to safeguard your own interests.

Secondly your sex urge is there. Try to control it and not spoil yourself unnecessarily. For it would be worth for a person like you to wait for the right or a better person to come in your life.

Answer 6

Interpret Your Dreams on this site all the meanings without having to look them up never mind the...Title...of the web-site. http://www.freakydreams.com/ because Good Dreams also can be Interpreted.
Dreaming is a place of possibility and creation, a land of futures that might come and pasts that never were. It is also a land of nightmares.
It constantly changes as people fall asleep and shape parts of it, then wake up and their dreams dissolve back into mist. A dreams dictionary always helps ( for other descriptions needed ). http://myjellybean.com/dream/pagey.html
Did you know you can make yourself dream anything its called...Lucid Dreaming which this site will explains along with some other questions about dreaming. http://www.dreams.ca/

Answer 7

I think that when it comes to public affection, it's not there for you. I think that you don't like to display it in front of everybody, and in your dream you were embarrased and weren't ready for the "marriage". But you answered yes, as not to embarrase your boyfriend. I don't think you should worry about these dreams, I think that they will cause problems with your relationships if you continue to dwell on them, right? So maybe you're looking too hard for somebody perfect..maybe take a step back and enjoy being single...lol...I know I did.

Answer 8

Sorry love. Your dream is so happy. Problem is, you KNOW, even in your dreams you cannot have this for you already have another love in your waking hours that you flat out refuse to give up. Now, do you want to pursue your dreams or do you wish to continue with what you now have?

Answer 9

Please do not be offended by my answer,to me, and i am no expert,it sounds like you want a relationship, but not a commitment. Could it be that you maybe a gay female or not sure of your sexuality, because you were fine in the presence of others, to the question of marriage,but alone with the guy did want that. Also, think , is it your idea of what you want in a man, or what you think you want , because, that's what society says.It could be that you want a friend man, and not a man friend.

Answer 10

It could mean that a releationship you will soon be in is going to have the commitment you may not be ready for.But don't worry if the guy is cool and stuff it will be fine.

Answer 11

every girl see this type of dreams you can ask other girls then they say to you the dream that when we wake up we would be very sad that this dream is overed