i'm a real dude.i cook,clean the house,help the kids w/homework wash the clothes,i make sure everything is done so when she gets home she has NOTHING 2 do but relax,i even rub her feet.i tell her how sexy & beautiful she is everyday..i still chase her around the house pinchin on the butt,roses,walking up behind her putting my arms around her,sending sexxy txt msgs, the whole 9.why do i only get sex once a week?what's up w/that?
2006-08-11 09:14:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. Maybe she's just not a sexual being...
2. Maybe you are not "triggering" much excitement when it happens.. ask her what she would like you to do to her...
and maybe she doesn't like having her butt pinched...
talk to her.. it's the best way
2006-08-11 09:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maaan... i'm so envy to yr wife. I wish my b/f could do the same. But no. I'm doing everything u doing for yr wife - he just relax after work. (I thought all black men like that) But i can't get more then 1 time in day - sometimes: 1 time in two days. And it's keep going...i don't want to get it one time in week - like u. i wish have a sex 5-6 everyday. But...he doesn't feel to do that so often. U r real man - and keep it - ok? It's so rare thing in our life today.I wish u good luck and hope u will get what u want coz family it's the one what is really important.
P.S. Maybe u have to stop do all that - then yr wife will estimate all u do.?!!
2006-08-11 17:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Poison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are home and she is working thats the first problem. Woman are different than guys, they cannot be stressed out all day come home and get laid, did you ever here the expression men are from mars woman are from venus. It just aint in the cards, especially when you are married, the top priority on there mind is finacial security, sex comes somewhere after gardening. So if you see her planting flowers, you know what to expect tonight.
2006-08-11 16:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old is your wife? Maybe she is going through a mid life crisis. Or maybe there something worng with her hormonally. At least you get it once a week there are some men out there that don't get it that often. If this is something that you are really concerned maybe you should talk to her about in in a sensative way.
2006-08-11 16:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop kissing her ***; she has nothing to do when she gets home?? Sounds to me like you're crossing boundaries; all I know is I am head of domestic relations in my house and I don't want anyone horning in, especially my old man; sure, I like help every now and then, but it's my pissing ground. This may sound a bit caveman, but do your man **** and stop playing around the house, help is fine, but she needs to feel like she is in charge of her household.
2006-08-11 16:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by octavia155 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife is the same way only problem is she does not work. I just stopped with all the sweet crap. I told her if she keeps ignoring my love to her some day I will just stop. Jodi may be stopping by when I am working
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2006-08-11 18:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by ajh8675309v2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop doing it. Something else is bothering her but the "whole nine yards" is still one yard short of a first down. You may have to punt and get out of your own end zone.
2006-08-11 16:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by n9wff 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-15 00:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by hope03 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she's not enjoying it, yet 1x a wk ain't that bad. It will turn to 1x a month if you don't figure out why she doesn't want to, but my guess is she's not satisfied.
2006-08-11 16:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start wearing the pants in the house, your wife loves the maid she has in you......but probably doesn't respect the man in you.
2006-08-11 16:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋