well i have a freind or you can say a very good friend .. but the prob is that this freind thinks that we are more than freinds... now how can i make my freind understand that we are just freind.. ?shall i stop talking or what.. i have already tried talking and to make things clear .. but no use.. what can i do now
2006-08-11 09:06:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell your friend " we are just friends and we will never be nothing more then friends! you have to move on, there are other people out there we arent ment for each other" if that doesnt work then tell your friend harshly
2006-08-11 09:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be straight up like "I don't like you like that - now if you can't just be my freind then kick rocks" Then slap the freind if they start crying. Oh - and what is a freind? Are they dangerous - cause if they are maybe I'd run after I slapped the biatch.
2006-08-11 16:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by shimmy shake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyones saying you should just tell him/her, but it's easier said than done. If he/she finds out you don't feel the same way, your very good friend will be very emotionally hurt and may hate you for a while, but should get over it as you did nothing wrong. You should just let it cool down and stay away or cut down on the amount of time you spend together.
2006-08-11 16:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm!! Make it clear that there are boundaries. If he/she refuses to respect those boundaries, then the friendship is over!!! (PLAIN & SIMPLE). A true friend will respect your wishes and do whatever it takes to protect the relationship. If not, you might want to reconsider having this person as a friend.
2006-08-11 16:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need two items: (1) a sock; and (2) a padlock.
place the padlock into the sock then repeatedly hit your gay friend in the head. That should do it.
Have a great day!
2006-08-11 16:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by stevenkray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit the person down and have a real good talk once more. And let them know how u feel and if they can't respect that, you were better off without him/her!
2006-08-11 16:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that "being friends is good enough for me" and then just continue going on with your friendship. And who knows, maybe someday you'll feel the same way bout him
2006-08-11 16:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by llama_lover6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you have a few choices here. one yourself a boy/girl friend not sure what sex you r. 2. tell him/her that your feeling for them is more like a sibling and nothing more. 3. break up the friendship.
2006-08-11 16:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them, and make sure they understand. It is better to hurt them now then drag them along for who knows how long.
2006-08-11 16:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurllexi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him. Explain to him how you feel and why you just want to be friends.
2006-08-11 16:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by poeticsoul127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋