2006-08-11 08:56:34 · 26 answers · asked by sashel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are sure about it,make a dna test.
ask your husband again and say that you already knew.
ask the other woman(the one who has a child with your husband)
have your own judgement whether or not to divorce your husband.
ask for advice within your networks(friends and family and concern individuals)
2006-08-18 18:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by darknight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are positive that your husband has a child with another woman why do you want him to admit. You must decide based on the circumstances whether you want to continue your marriage or terminate it.
The fatherhood brings an obligation to contribute financially and emotionally to the well being of the child and you must be ready to agree to it.
2006-08-19 15:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off a DNA test will tell if the baby is his or not. If he totally refuses then you know he knows it is his. Tell him you want him to take one and see what happens. Now they can just swab his mouth and the baby's mouth then test it. If it is his then ya'll will know.
Second, if he is the father, was the baby conceived while he was with you? If yes the he cheated, you have to decide can you live with that?
2006-08-18 12:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the mother of the child if he is the father and ask her to get a DNA. This child deserves to know its father even if your husband is a jerk and does not want you to know the truth. You are a wonderful woman and thinking of this child is prove of your love in this life.. You are GREAT and your husband is a sad person who does not want to have a life with his child, it is a part of him and he can not bury this child under a rug.. Good luck Zella
2006-08-19 12:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he pay child support for this baby? Has a paternity test been done? If you answered no to both questions then I would believe your husband.
2006-08-18 20:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lysa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all did he do this when he was already with you if so divorce him. If not ask to get a test to see if he is the father if he refuses that means he is trying to hide something. Hope thing work out.
2006-08-11 16:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of the other advice is to leave. i don't agree, marriage is not just fly by night relationship to be taken lightly.... if you haven't really confronted him about a DNA test, you should and if he is indignant about it...tell him that the trust will never be there other wise and that you may contemplate divorce..see what he does. good luck i feel for you. if he refuses then maybe you should leave...the trust will never ever be there again and a marriage should be based on trust.
2006-08-19 00:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact Cheaters. This way you get a P.I for free and the evidence you need to take half his sh*t. Good Luck baby girl
2006-08-19 15:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by nino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you see a positive dna test it's only gossip that it's his baby and many women gossip in the hope of breaking up a relationship to steal the man or just because they are nasty
2006-08-19 04:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by mini prophet of fubar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok there are a few steps i have in mind!
1. confront the other woman
2. divorce
3. ask him why he did it.
4. take a DNA/paternity test.
or as Madea says "beat the hell out of him first, and ask questions later"
sorry about whatever's going on. if you need more advice please feel free to email me at kamatthews@smartathome.com
2006-08-18 21:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by keyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋