my friends 20 and she hangs around with a 12 year old which i would say the 12 year old is still classed as a child any way its her 21st next month and she's having a party but it strictly says no children allowed but her friend who's 12 is going i cant way that up. So thats meen's i cant take my baby with me ok i no it will be to noisy for him and a bad enviroment but i was only planning going for the first hour but he has never been out of my sight since he was born i wont leave him with any one ok i'm sad i no but thats the way i am. What do i do go or not i trust people to look after him but i just don't wanna leave him.
2006-08-11 08:54:05 · 13 answers · asked by lyndsey H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah go for the 1st hour then leave quietly later!
2006-08-11 08:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st why is she friend with a child so young anyway?
second do you not have your mum or sis around that would look after the baby for an hour i know you say you've never left with any one before bur hun you need to have some "you time"
get some 1 to have the baby even if you only stay half an hour at least you will have had that "you time"
2006-08-14 10:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by just ask jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend can't turn your baby away. Go for the 1st hour and tell her how your distressed about leaving your baby behind...If shes a good friend she'll allow you bring your child!! I also think its odd for her to be friends with a 12 year old...
2006-08-11 09:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by kareno209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant b with ur baby all the time u have to enjoy ur life get a babysitter and go 4 an hour and c how u feel u can always leave if u want
2006-08-15 00:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by juicylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You acn leave him for an hour with people you trust. It will do you good. The wrench is harder for the mother than for the child. Just keep it to an hour and no more - and enjoy yourself
2006-08-11 09:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to take your baby to a party ? presumably some people will be smoking and that is a very unhealthy environment for a baby, even for just an hour - put your babies welfare first.
2006-08-11 10:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Honeybun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is only for an hour your baby will be fine...get someone responsible to look after him and go and enjoy yourself.
2006-08-11 08:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by aliviel27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k if you stay near youre child to much youll spoi him and you dont want to that do you so go to the party and leave him with some1 you know will take care of him and go but come back early if you want and dont drink to much
2006-08-11 09:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your baby along.Why not?This is the real world.
2006-08-11 08:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tow choices
1 don't go
2 ignore her and take him with and if she said anything remind her of her little guy.
2006-08-11 09:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by memo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋