2006-08-11 08:52:15 · 24 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-11 08:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by cranberries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i think you know the answer to that question before you even finished typing it. Come on... seriously. If the person doesn't notice you or like you because of who you are now, who's to say they're gonna like you when you change. And i'm sorry, but no one really "changes," you're who you are and sooner or later you're gonna get comfortable with the person and the old you will come back, it just happens. Be yourself, act like a normal person and say fu*k off to the person who doesn't like you as you... i know that's cliche' but dam*it it's the truth..
2006-08-11 08:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by dannyh2oman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you need to be who you are and let your real self shine. Because if you have to change for someone there not worth it.
Because in the long run they will leave anyway in time. nothing will be good enough for them. Do you think they would change all of that for you? Hope this helps
2006-08-11 08:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? OF COURSE NOT! Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't like you the way you are? Believe me, there is someone out there that will love you no matter what - Don't waste your time on someone you have to be fake for.
2006-08-11 08:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should never change your self in to someone else for a man to like you . If he likes you he is going to like you for who you are right at this moment. Never sale yourself short for a man love yourself embrace who you are change for you not a man.
2006-08-11 08:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO (duh). You will never be happy in the long run because you won't be being true to yourself. And really, there won't be a long run because obviously this person doesn't like the real you , which will eventually have to come out. If this person is really into you, then you won't have to change anything. Always be true to yourself first and foremost.
2006-08-11 08:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by lacopperphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only change if its for yourself , or if your friends and activities are illegal and you are trying to grow up . But if its for him cuz he doesnt like the way you are or dress or who your friends are then he really doesnt like you for you. You should appreciate who you are and HE SHOULD TOO , I appreciate my GF for who she is , if I didnt it wouldnt matter who i date , I could just pick anyone off the street. There are reasons people like other people .
2006-08-11 09:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should be yourself. If he's going to like you he needs to be able to accept you and your friends and the real you. Changing yourself will only make you unhappy.
2006-08-11 08:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! A person should like you for who u are and if he doesent then dont waste your time trying to be someone your not. Love yourself and otherrs will love you.
2006-08-11 08:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by poeticsoul127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! if they dont like who you really are, they aint worth it. i liked so many guys all through school and they all like the fake girls...but u know wat? those girls have 2 wake up someday, and they wont be able to. the will forget who they were, who they really are. and for wat? some teenage crush. its not worth it
the guys may not like u now, they didnt like me, but they will. i have a bf who loves me for who i am now...not who i pretend to be. remember:
everyone's prince charming will come, yours just took a wrong turn, got lost and is too stubourn to ask for directions!
hang in there
~be yourself~
2006-08-11 09:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Coopers_Revival 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That for someone who's unsecure about their personality. If you change because of that person, you're gonna have to change forever.
2006-08-11 08:56:45 · answer #11 · answered by Great Master TK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋