My very handsome son?

Question

My son is very handsome. He is 9yrs old. With all of these hot azz girls out here how do I keep them from corrupting my boy. He does like girls. They have the bodies of women these days and act as such. Is my son in for some serious drama. 4th grade they already were fightin over him.

Answer 1

he'll be a ladies man for sure...just make sure he doesnt get too arrogant as he gets older and you'll be fine. just expect really high phone bills once he turns 13 lol

Answer 2

If you want my opinion, there seems to be a deeper problem here. If your son is only nine, and you are already talking about his physical relationship with girls, I'd say there are some serious boundary issues that need to be addressed. Please seek counseling in order to be a positive role model for your child. I'm not trying to say that you are not being a good parent. But really, children are innocent and need to stay that way as long as possible. If you are already drawing yours son's attention to girls and making comments about physical relationships to your son, you are adding to the pressures that children already feel from their friends.

Just sit down with your son and explain to him that even though others might be involved with having a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" at this young age, that he shouldn't feel he needs to do the same. He should focus on having fun playing sports and working hard in school. There are so many issues that go along with having a relationship, no one should try to rush their child into that at such a young age. Just slow down, be a positive role model and help your child to focus his attention somewhere other than the opposite sex. Give him something to occupy his time; sports, music lessons, clubs, etc. It seems that the kids who have too much idle time are the one who end up trying activities that they shouldn't and getting into trouble. Downplay the attention that your son gets from girls and be thankful that you have an attractive, healthy son. :)

Answer 3

I admit, girls are much more aggressive these days. The best you can do as a parent is to teach him self respect, and to respect girls. Teach him that sex is not the same as love and that he should not expect or submit to it under any reason until he is of an age where he can make that as an informed choice. And NOT meaning just knowing how to use a condom as suggested by another answer.
Teach him that dating one on one isn't allowed for quite a few years, that group dates, when they are allowed, need to be chaperoned, and check to make sure that they are. Tell him not to allow himself to be alone with girls in private places.
You will probably feel like a combination parent and parole officer. But, if you teach him well, especially the meaning of respect - he should turn out OK.
It's a scary world out there sometimes.

Answer 4

You or his father need to have a serious sit down with him about girls and sex. It's up to you as the parents to tell him what you think is acceptable for his age, and at what age he is expected to wait on dating, kissing, sex, etc...
Tell him in detail about sex if you haven't already. Curiosity will only make him want to figure it out on his own. Talk to him about masturbation, too.
Set limits and decide ages that things are allowed. Maybe he can group date at 12, and individually date at 15. It's up to you are the parents to decide. Don't let him set the rules or talk you out of what you believe.
Yes, he's probably in for some major drama from the girls. We tend to make idiots out of ourselves when we are young. But then, so do the guys. Expect giggling girls to call the house asking for him. Usually two or three on the phone at a time. As long as you keep firm on your rules, he should be able to deal with it and so should you.
Good Luck!

Answer 5

There is only one handsome son in the world, and every mommy has it!!, I got mine. However, the best way to keep your son out of trouble is by talking to him, talk to him a lot and some more... What seemed to work for me is telling my children that girls who chase boys are no good. That the best woman for him is going to be the one he chases. Teach him morals, family values and foremost, spiritual values. Your son will have a happy life. Trust me.

You have to do magic to scare those girls away.

Answer 6

Yes... You have to get him interested in other things like sports and such so that girls are not the only things on his mind. Also, talk to him or have a male talk to him.

Answer 7

teach him about girls like that and tell him to be careful when it comes to girls like that but dont put women down and make it seem like all girls are hos and sluts. Just let him kno that theyre are nasty girls out there and to stay away from them but also that not all girls are nasty just some. But also let him kno that just like there are nasty girls there are nasty boys too and its not ok for guys to act like that either. Lets not forget that there are such things as man hos too, and just like loose girls are no good neither are loose guys. Teach him to keep it in his pants.

Answer 8

I went through uit with my son for a bunch of 4th graders whe he was that age I never heard so much drama its scary.. Just sit down and talk with your son and let him know you are ther for him if he has any questions

Answer 9

Are you raising him to refer to little nine year old girls as "hot azz girls". That might be some of the problem right there.

Answer 10

same with my litte brother hes 12 about to turn 13 lots of gurls like him