I tend to think not.
2006-08-11 08:35:19 · 15 answers · asked by hfacto 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I think it doesn't really matter what you "tend" to think, or what I think, or what other posters think....
The only thing that really matters is how you define the relationship between you and your partner. I guess together you need to have an agreement about what is and is not "cheating". If your partner is ok with it, then it is ok. If your conscience is ok with it and your partner is ok with it...then its all between you and god after that.
If you can justify it with your self, your partner and your God...that have at it!
2006-08-11 08:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by teachinmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not about to ask my wife that question...
I've never been to a massage parlor, but I'm STILL not about to ask her that question.
Really.... you think just because you paid a masseuse to give you a hand job it's not cheating? If you didn't pay some woman you met in a bar to do the same thing in the back seat of your car, wouldn't THAT be cheating? What is the difference?
What if you paid a male masseuse to give you a "Happy Ending"??? Wouldn't that be the same thing as paying for a gay sex act? Wouldn't that be the same thing as cheating, only really freaky at the same time?
Dude.... you can't be serious.
2006-08-11 16:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, or have a boy or girlfriend and anything sexual is done outside of that relationship seems like would be considered cheating. Even though all the masseurs is doing is masturbating you in an experienced great way. Would you consider it cheating if your other half was sexually released thur massage? Personally I believe it is a form of cheating.
2006-08-11 16:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. If you don't think it is cheating, then you have no doubt told your partner all about it. If you have not, then I guess you really do think its cheating, and are looking for permission to feel OK about it.
Bottom line, your partner is the best person to answer this for you. It is about the two of you and your relationship.
2006-08-11 16:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a form of cheating. Plus you are using money to pay for it that should be used on your family.
If you were not cheating, and had to have a massage, you would get one without the "frills".
2006-08-11 15:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wouldn't feel right having your partner getting the same happy ending, then it is cheating. If you have to ask, you already know the answer.
2006-08-11 15:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup. what do you think? what if your sig. other went to get a massage and got a "happy ending" would you consider that cheating on you?
2006-08-11 15:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. You are paying for it. You can't honestly tell us that you don't slip a couple of bills for that happy ending. Not only is it cheating, but it's soliciting prostitution. Sex is sex.. Bill Clinton.
2006-08-11 15:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating
2006-08-11 15:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is debatable. Many people would consider it cheating because you are receiving gratification from someone other than your significant other.
2006-08-11 15:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by mthtchr05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋