ok friends i really need some help..maybe there is nothin you can do or say to help me but im just so lost rite now i cant take it anymore...im a gurl and the love of my life is another gurl as some of u have read my recent questions we are having some trust issues..i love this gurl with all my fn heart and i have never cheated but she lets her past relationships determine how much trust she gives me..its so hard it feels like a knife in my heart every time she accuses me of something or every time i go out with my friends shes mad..i understand her frusteration becuz we are not allowed to see each other rite now..we lived together for six months and then got seperated cuz of parents and grandparents etc cuz they found out we were together..it puts a lot of stess on us cuz we barely get to see each other we have to sneak around...what can i do to be all that she needs..? how can i get her to believe in me? all i want with all my heart is her trust...i would never hurt her..PLEASE HELP!
2006-08-11 08:32:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask her
2006-08-11 08:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you need to get her to realize the love you have for her which isn't going to be that easy being that she has her mind set on you being a cheater. Just be creative not only tell her how you feel but show her by pouring out your heart and your undying love for her. Show her how far you are willing to go just to make her happy. Most of all just tell her that she's the only woman for you and the only one you will ever want. Make sure you look her in the eyes and mean what you say when you say it. Also be sensitive to the way she feels cause when a person goes through the pain of someone doing them dirty it stays with them along time. She can't help the way she feels she's just probably in love and is scared that you will break her heart the way someone else did. Just be as reassure her as much as possible what she means to you and hopefully she will soon realize that you won't hurt her and that you truly love her. Good Luck !!!!!
2006-08-11 08:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your family should not be doing that because who are they to judge you. If you look at it they are not perfect their selves. You need to go to your girlfriend and tell her ay, look I know you had past pains but it's time to move on and learn to start on a clean slate. She doesn't want her heart broken anymore I understand but sometimes you gotta let go. It's your job to make her understand this too. And personally I think y'all should move in together. Things would be alot better if it were just you two. I hope everything works out for the best.
2006-08-11 08:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been hurt in the past and now its hard for her to trust. You have to have patience and understanding. Let her know how much you care for her and that you wouldn't do anything to hurt her and then show it with your actions. Let her ask questions and make your life an open book so she doesn't have to wonder. Before long she will come to trust you because she will see she can. Good luck.
2006-08-11 08:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the initiating, she has complications if she deliverable hurts herself. 2d, how lengthy have you ever been with her & have you ever tried to discover her help. third, end being so down on your self. issues happen & even with, in case you do split then yet another nicer woman prepared to provide you the time of day will come alongside. your present day gf isn't each of the being, & if she is then you definately have higher themes.
2016-11-24 20:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really does love you and she talks about you every time i talk to her. very awesome i think. and i know you guys will get through this september 11 is a special day sweet. no worries and be safe
2006-08-12 06:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by annie_1_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋