his girlfriend has cheated on him, broke up with him and came back to him like 4 time, not to mention her friends try and break them up all the time. he still thinks it can work. but i dont, its not my place but i just feel i needs someone better. any addvice would be great.
2006-08-11 08:25:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he knows i dont like her. and i dont have it in me to be mean to her. iv tryed so hard to show him she's an idiot.
2006-08-11 08:32:24 · update #1
Let him know he's been played a fool of and that she won't change her colours for him, if she truly loved him she would not of did it in the first place!. Let him know your opinion, he may listen to you when you point that out. If he doesn't he may have to learn this the hard way.
Letting him know that he can contact STDs from her because she's not faithful, that should wake him up a bit.
2006-08-11 08:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should both get together in a church or a synagog or a mosque or whatever religion they have, get married, and use the party money on moving away from y'all as far as Alaska and everything will be great for them. cause this situation is simply worse than the Romeo and Juliet. However I wouldn't want to give the advise for both of them to die in a poisonous deadly kiss, y'know. I mean it's romantic, but not so much.
Anyway I hope it's all gonna turn out alright for them. Wish them luck!
2006-08-11 15:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by brother from QG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,when you give someone like your friend advice I'm sure he won't really take it to heart since he seems hooked on her no matter what but I can tell you that God answers prayers and if you know that this relationship is not helping him then you can pray and ask God to take control & make a way to deliver them both from any bad ways that they may have so that if they have to be together then they will be good for each other AND for all their friends too.
2006-08-11 15:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like the more you do to get him to dump her the more he's determined to stay with her.
Dude, leave it alone. The more you try to show him the more he's going to resist you. You are fighting a losing battle. Until he can see her for what she is, nothing you say is going to change his mind about her.
Honestly, your friend is the idiot if he likes to be a doormat for this girl.
Let it go. Eventually, he will see her for what she is.
2006-08-11 15:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for your friend,ok! Some people just can't see things clearly when it comes to the opposite sex,ya know. Sure this girl isn't the perfect person for your friend,she doesn't sound like she cares about his feelings this is for sure. Just be there for you friend,he will figure this all out real soon. Hope sooner than later,for sure...have a wonderful weekend
2006-08-11 15:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dimples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but no one can get him to end this relationship but himself. You can try to explain...(he already knows). You can tell him what's wrong...(he already knows). Until he is willing to wake up and understand that he can't make things work ALONE then you needn't try to talk him out of it. Just be there for him. Let him know that he has your friendship no matter what happens. He's going to need you once reality truly sets in.
2006-08-11 15:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by kalischild57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a good friend was abit of a dumn *** when he was in a relatioship. i just stood back and let him learn his lesson. and yep he learned it alright the hard way. at the moment ive got a friend with the same problem as your friend. other friends tried talkin to him to try open his eyes but its no use. he just thinks we hate her for no reason. i just mind my own business.
2006-08-11 15:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by delmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce him to a girl he just can't resist (and is genuinely interested in him). He will get over the bad girlfriend and move on real quick.
2006-08-11 15:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is talk some sense into him and if he doesn't listen then all you can do is what until he realizes that you were right, and how good of a friend you are....
Good luck!
2006-08-11 15:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley Babi15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to catch her like on a video flirting with another guy.Or follow her with another guy and tell your friend that you need to go to the surf shop will he come with you.And then run into them.
2006-08-11 15:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋