Ok my ex and I were friends at least I thought we were. Anyway recently he accused me of being liar, because I started a new job and I can't bring my personal phone with me so I leaves it off. Anyway I guess oneday he was trying to call me and as always my phone was off, then he said when he called again my phone was busy. Now it could have been when I was on break, checking my messages, but he got all freaked out and accused me of being with another guy. And also there is a guy at my job who said, he may know my ex, so when I asked my ex did he know the guy he caught an attitude, and told me to send a pic of the guy then he would let me know, if he knew him. Well I never sent the pic cuz I 4got and the guy isn't even someone I like. Then my ex said something that made me think he was crazy, he said why hasn't he ever seen pics of the guys I "claim" to talk to, isn't he weird? I got mad and told him I was tired of his bullsh*t, and that I didn't want to be his friend anymore.
2006-08-11 08:18:49 · 19 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In addition He told me he didn't want to be my friend anyway. What the hell is his problem?
2006-08-11 08:20:11 · update #1
if he's your "ex" why should it matter who you're seeing or talking to? don't worry about this, just move on...things could get very out-of-hand here. he sounds like he has big issues, and you should be caught up in it! after all he's you "ex"!
2006-08-11 08:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pissed perhaps, worried, most definatley. Who is he in your life to demand to know every male you speak with, work with, look at? He shouldn't be that controlling even if you were still together. It sounds like you ex may have some issues with control and "ownership" the whole "I don't want her, but you can't have her" deal. I think you should break off contact with "ex", but be careful; change your phone number, and have it unlisted. Use your head. And be ready; breakups with those kind of men can get ugly in a hurry. Don't be afraid to do what is necessary to keep YOU safe.
2006-08-11 15:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by his_lil_patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, hes an EX. Why are still letting him control you and get an attitude if your not even together. Who cares if you are seeing someone else. You broke up, you can go out and hump every guy you meet and he cant say s h i t.
He' sounds like a freakin psycho!!! You dont need a friend like that.
2006-08-11 15:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should be pissed because first of all you are friends and he is YOUR EX. then he wants to get mad you have to have your phone off. maybe you were with another guy so what?yall are friends he needs to move on. I would be pissed. you did excately the right thing!!!! :P
2006-08-11 15:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mariah W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, someone's jealouuuuusssss. he's just missing you hun, he doesnt want to see you with anyone else because he still wants you to himself. maybe he's being to difficult to be able to explain anything, and if that is the case im sorry, i dont know what to say. but i would try to talk to him and get behind the reason of why he got so upset.
2006-08-11 15:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by missy_t_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt seem like that you two have broken off. it sounds like that you two are still in a relationship. if you dont like him then break it off and say that it is not possible for you to be friends with him.it is clear that this guy is not over you. he still thinks he owns you and that he can control you. quickly cut free.
2006-08-11 15:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks like he owns/owned you...
he wants to know who youre going out with and all that possessive BS
*thats why being friends with an ex is not advisable
2006-08-11 15:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes- drop this. You do not need the headache. Remember, he's your "ex" for a reason! Good Luck!
2006-08-11 15:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tis better to be pissed off than to be pissed on, unless you enjoy golden showers
2006-08-11 15:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you are much better off without the other!
2006-08-11 15:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋