i have been with this guy for a year and he just told me one night that he was back with his ex that he was with for 10 years and now i am left wanting him and i feel if i don't get i will kill myself what do i do. people tell me they won't last but do i wait?
2006-08-11 08:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by shygirlelm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you afraid of losing him? Or are you just afraid of losing?
I don't know your situation, but it seems that he suddenly became more desirable once he was with someone else.
2006-08-11 09:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by No Drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/Qlwgj
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 19:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/WQ7MW
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-29 18:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all DONT KILL UR SELF!! omg. did u ever tell him how u felt about him? i know it doesnt seem like it but there are going to be things in ur life in the future when u say boy m i glad i didnt kill myself. its gonna be hard and yes u feel like u cant go on life with out him. if this is true then wait if u r that into him. i think that if he left u for his ex then theres no point in going tou with him again. i know u might think differently about this and its ok. just pleez dont do anything stupid.
hope u then best
TT
2006-08-11 08:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tik~Tak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out ! have fun with your friends! If your meant to be together it will happen, but in the meantime you've got to go on living your life. Life's too short to sit and wait!
2006-08-11 08:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ALWAYS HEARD IT TAKES TWICE AS LONG TO GET OVER SOMEONE AS YOU WERE WITH THEM. IVE EXPERIENCED A HEART WRENCHING LOVE LOSS BEFORE AND IM NOT TRULY OVER IT, BUT IF ITS MEANT TO BE THEN HE WILL REALIZE YOU ARE THE ONE. IF NOT THEN MOVE ON AND YOU DESERVE BETTER. SOMEONE WHO IS NOT WISHY WASHY WITH THEIR FEELINGS. DO NOT KILL YOUR SELF, JUST SLASH HIS TIRES! YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN HE IS. GOD LOVES YOU AND WHEN YOU REALLY MEET THE RIGHT PERSON YOU WILL KNOW IT AND SO WILL HE.
2006-08-11 08:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by shaealize77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy girl, easy.
Dont be like that., It will all get better as the time passes by,
Get ur self bzy in other activities , dont stay idle
Get ur self bzy bzy bzy
2006-08-11 08:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by Zolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋