Ok so call me crazy but I want to watch my husband be with another girl. It is so sexy and maybe I can join in. He does not want to do it at all. What can I do to persued him?
2006-08-11 08:05:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In response to Mardi D. Do you not feel a little angry that he was so quick to sleep with someone else. YUCK! Why get married if your gonna screw around.
2006-08-11 08:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by concerned 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH I LOVE YOU!!!! You are my dream women. From a guys view I would love for this to happen. Although if it did I would not enjoy it unless you were involved also. Not trying to be a perv but may bee you can straddle his face when the other women is straddling him. That way he would feel that you have not been left out. You could watch and get pleasure at the same time.
2006-08-11 11:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by ajh8675309v2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I wanted this for my husband, I invited a woman I knew he was attracted to over for dinner. I had already talked to her and she was in agreement with my plan. I would make up an excuse to go someplace and she would make a play for him soooooo...... After dinner I got up and excused myself saying I needed to run to the store and asked my husband if he would visit with her for an hour or so until I got back. She knew I would be back sooner than I had told my husband. When I came back home I sat slipped onto the deck and watched them through the patio door. When they finished I joined in too.
You have to know your husband and his limitations but it can be very erotic if you pull it off. He was just afraid I was setting him up to be the fall guy. He knows better now!
2006-08-11 08:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might not take you seriously cause maybe he's thinking inside "yea, i'd love to be with another woman" but maybe he's thinking its a test. Some women "test" their husbands to see what they'd say in that situation. Make sure he knows you are serious. Maybe get some porn with 3somes in it and talk about it to him while you are making love. Maybe eventually he'll get the hint.
2006-08-11 08:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is that your husband loves you!?!? How horrible!!!! I think maybe you want to be with another girl and are using your husband as an excuse. Not a jealous bone in your body , eh?
2006-08-11 08:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by sixties 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to do it because he is scared. He's scared that you won't be ok with it after. He's scared that he may not be ok with it after. And the worst thing is, even if you manage to convince him to go for it, things may get very unpleasant after.
Ultimately you have to be completely ok with having to share him with another girl. You are not just setting up a one night stand. It may seem like it, but you are actually matchmaking to get him a second woman.
Tread with caution.
To persuade him, bring the girl you chose to your house for dinner and make sure she knows what you want. Then get her to flirt with him and encourage her when she does. If you are ok with kissing a girl, go for it. He will go for it seeing that it's what you want and that you are completely ok with it. But he isn't going to believe just words.
2006-08-11 08:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy. If my wife proposed that I'd be like "OK when?" He's probably threatened by the idea and thinks he may lose you. If you think that might be the case address exactly that with him and maybe he'll warm up to the idea.
2006-08-11 08:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not want o do it you should be thrilled how many women don't want their husbands to be with anoth firl and he is. If it is something he is just not into to it wikk have to remain in the realam of a desire he will not enjoy if he is pushe intio it
2006-08-11 08:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by l_iwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife that kind of fantasy too... but no, i have not done it coz I dun want to spoil the relationship even though she has given her blessing... i know she like to watch a real life action.
2006-08-12 03:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jack T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just have a three sum??? That way you can be a part of it too...And watch your husband bang another chick
2006-08-11 08:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋