whats going on??

Question

i think that my fiance is trying to get me pregnant but i cant say for sure..but every time we have sex he insists that we take the condom off even though i constantly tell him what could happen he laughs it off and just...what is going on does ne body else think that he is trying to get me pregnant? what should i do now hold off sex til the marriage??

Answer 1

I would say you shoulda had held off untill marriage... Nothing wrong with that, but since you didn't... you can always tell him you want to... after all it's your body... and it's not fair you get pregnant cuz he wants you to. Your body is going to have to carry that so if he wants you to get pregnant he better make sure he has your approval.
Men can be really selfish... they want to feel everything, but when it comes to be responsible they walk away.
To tell you the truth, hon, I would go get a shot or something to make sure it doesn't happen w/out your consent.

Answer 2

Sounds like he is trying to get you pregnant. Tell him how you feel, and what you think he may be doing. Tell him you are not ready for children right now and if he does not use a condom you cannot have sex with him. Or...you can go on the pill

Answer 3

most men don't like to wear condom, it reduces sensitivity... he's thinking more of pleasure and not so much of consequences. remind him and be firm about it everytime unless you wanna get pregnant.

or think of another solution like taking the pill

Answer 4

Uh Oh.... Good luck on this one sweets. You two need to have THE TALK about kids. Tell him you want to wait till marriage, tell him your not ready, tell him something.... and quick! But DO TALK to him... cuz obviously he is missing something.

Answer 5

yah talk to him...