Well, I use to work at a ridding stable, in Morehead Kentucky... and alot of unexperienced people came to ride, just let her know that the guides or people teaching you how to ride isn't going to let you get on a bad horse, one that will hurt you, and they won't leave you if you tell them that your not comfortable.. It is actually really safe, if your teacher or guide teaches you the proper safety that you need to know, like walking behind the horse, or ridding w/ a helmet. I know that helmets aren't that "cool" to wear but it should be worn until you learn to ride.. Let her know maybe that you want to go ride for about an hour at a horse rental place, and see how you like it, and tell her that you will do chores to help pay for it.. for an hour it is about..$20.00 a person.. If you show your parents that you really are sincere about doing this then maybe they may give in... oh and from being a kid at one time.... ask and ask and ask until you get on their nerves and they finally say yes (just in case the 1st time doesn't work).. good luck!
2006-08-11 09:35:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, first off, just ask her.
Try explaining to her how much you want to. If cost is a factor, maybe think about doing chores for her in exchange for lessons.
Get a part time job, to help with the cost of the lessons.
you dont say how old you are, or whether you asked your mom, and her views on it.
Explain to her that they're a fantastic sport to have, being outdoors and active, healthy environment...and that they're way better than "falling in with the wrong crowd" coz horses will certainly keep you clear of that for the most part......if all else fails....NAG NAG NAG.....dont stop asking her, leave hints around the house, like business cards or flyers from your local riding schools......pictures of horses....request horsey things for birthdays and xmas etc.....make more horsey friends, there are a million ways to convince your mother to at least CONSIDER the idea...and once she's considering....half the battle is won!
Hope this helps....GOOD LUCK!!!!:)
2006-08-11 08:06:15
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answered by Kismet 3
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First, how old are you?
I let my daughter ride her first horse around the age 13 with Girl Guides. She went to a reputable "Ranch" with instructors and other volunteers to help.
Explain to your mom that you would like to go and ride a horse. You think you are responsible enough to follow instructions. The Ranch you are going to has a good reputation and lots of adult help. So it is safe. You will probably go out with a group of other riders some experienced and some first time riders. If the Ranch is reputable, they usually give first time riders a "safe" horse. In other words One with lots of experience.
Maybe Mom would like to go along and ride a horse (maybe for the first time) too.
BE HONEST.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-11 08:09:31
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answered by ellymar 2
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the best way if u cant afford to pay is to volunteer somewhere, most places with horses are happy to put u to work in exchange for u riding. Try the local riding for the disabled then u get the brownie points with mum for doing something u love
2006-08-14 22:24:39
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answered by Anonymous
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If your old enough ask if you could get a job to pay for the lessons or ask if you could work off your lessons at the stable by feeding the horses and cleaning their stalls.
2006-08-11 08:04:54
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answered by Animal Girl 4
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this is what i did: i showed my mom i was going to stick with it for the long run and then i offered to pay for the lessons. she said i didnt have to pay and ive been riding for 5 years!
2006-08-11 09:03:38
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answered by horselover 2
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