Especially black men. We as black women are naturally curvy. Our hair is natually wavy. Why is it that if our hair is natural then it is nappy and not beautiful? Why do we have to be so skinny? Don't you want something that is beautiful naturally? All of the celebrities are fake and you want all of us to look like that. If every woman had the resources that they have (personal trainers, makeup artists, etc.) we would all look like that too.
2006-08-11 07:46:41 · 16 answers · asked by msriss24 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sweetie,
These men are into high maintenance girls! They can't deal with the real us because it's not their fantasy. They want to show off and say to all the other men that they have a Barbie doll with them. Sorry guys, Barbie is going to dump you when she finds out you can't afford to buy her next plastic surgery.
I'm totally feeling you! Natural is the way to GO!
2006-08-11 07:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by JoyJoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, I know what you saying. I am a big curvy plus sized girl, and no guy wants to give me a chance. The want the fake whores who doesn't even know how a guy should be treated. Men need to wake up and see the best women are all natural.
2006-08-11 14:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by angel_babii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men look at women as trophies. Just because she has perfect breast, perfect *** etc...... Beauty is only skin deep. In 30 yrs. after enhancement surgeries, they will either have to update their enhancements or look like shitzu pups. I have learned that beauty does not completely make a woman. What good is a beatiful woman if she can't carry on a half *** intelligent conversation.
2006-08-11 14:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by zeuster2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good answer eve!
I like natural. I don't like obese. I like curvy though, whoo hoo! let me see those child-bearing hips. Sorry forgot myself.
Check this out: most guys would like to be with one of those model thin, anorexic beauties. But probably just for fun or as arm candy.
You seem to only see guys that want that stuff.
I also seem to see girls that want to be lead and treated like a princess.
Are we both right? Are the only guys that exist, want those fake girls? And are the only girls that exist want guys to place them on a pedestal before they ever get to know them?
Personally, I don't put any woman on a pedestal. If I love her after I have spent enough time with her, and we connect, then I may put her on that pedestal.
Off course, that is why I don't get many dates. Because most women just wait until some sucker puts them on a pedestal before he knows if she deserves it. It's a lonely life, but I won't compromise my values at a "chance" just to get a woman's attention. I value my time and money too much.
2006-08-11 15:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by elliott 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
1.Because men are dumb. They listen to what the media tells them (what kind of girl is hot, which song to listen to, etc.)
2. If men like fake girls, I think it's because they are fake themselves. They want to be able to play around with any girls that are easy to get in bed with no commitments.
3. Guys feed off women's insecurities. Most girls who are fake (fake boobs, fake hair, fake lips, etc.) are always adamant to get ANY guys attention. They are stupid too, because they ignore the fact that guys just want their body.
2006-08-11 14:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by dewdropinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man doesn't appreciate you for the way you are, without artificial enhancement, then he's not worth it. Ditch him and move on. I assure you, there are many less shallow men in the world - I'm married to one of them. I know I'm not classically beautiful, but he says I am. :)
2006-08-11 14:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
same reason women like fake men, the ferrari could be rented, the apartment a fake, yet women still run off with first perso that lies to them
they are always after the BBO ;o)
2006-08-11 14:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by tony h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't fit in with their sexual fantasies...frankly if you look at burlesque photos of the women in the 50s and 60s you will find that they are the sexiest things ever created...even with BODY hair and all....those were the days of REAL women....Marlyn Monroe was size 16 and every man drooled over her.
2006-08-11 14:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
darling. it's not just black woman, it's men all over. they love the pretty woman, but when it comes to settling down, you win all the time. if he's a nice genuine guy, he will see threw all the falseness, it's personality that counts
2006-08-11 14:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by valda54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a combination of genes and behavior. Men are looking for women to reproduce as a result bigger the breast means more sex or reproduce, bigger hips means more sex too.
2006-08-11 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by JIMMY CHOO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋