and the wedding would Waite till she graduates!
2006-08-11 07:40:39 · 34 answers · asked by n_jevne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sure you love her dearly. I stongly suggest you don't propose to her though. If you want to spend the rest of your life with her, then what's the rush? She doesn't need a ring and a ceremony to know that you love her. Just treat her right. Wait til you two are older, more established in life, have a better idea of who you are and want you want, then if you want to marry her; do so.
2006-08-11 07:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooooh. I think not. Propose when she graduates, and after you can support her. No moochin offa mommas! 16 is waaay young. Statistically speaking, the younger you marry, the higher the divorce rate. If you can hold off until at least 21 or 22, that would be even better. 25 would be even better than that! Stay together! Love each other! Plan your lives realistically, but take the time to make the right educational decisions (something after high school) to make those plans more than just fancy talk. Discuss your desires and the downside of life's choices...having kids, whether you'll go to church together, and if so where, where you'll live, career.... plan now. I don't want to say it won't work for you, but it is not statistically likely. But if you go slow...(SLLLLOOOOOOOOWWWWW), grow up together, make good decisions, then you will increase your chances of having a happy life together.
2006-08-11 07:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is way too young. You need to get an education and establish a career first. You can be together, but at 16 you are not thinking of what the future holds. Life is going to be a struggle for you without an education and I know from experience, without an education, life will not be easy.
2006-08-11 07:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by oliver_29730 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't if I were you. In the next few years your life is going to change and so will hers. And at that point you may not even like her. At sixteen my bf proposed and I accepted, with the condition that I graduate college before we got married. He agreed. I haven't spoken to him since about a year after we graduated high school.
2006-08-11 07:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, are you nuts? You are not even a full person yet. Trust me, while you think you know everything now, you have barely scratched the surface, her too. If she is the one for you, she still will be after you finish school, go to college and get a job. Then you be closer to being who you are. Then you can decide if you still like her, cause she is likely to be a different person by then also.
2006-08-11 07:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you finish school? Do you have a job that can support you, your girlfriend and children? Do you have a place to live? If no than you are to young. Future first then bring someone else into your life when you are happy and able to take care of your partner
2006-08-11 07:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by angel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is too, way too early. You could share your feelings, and tell that you will be always there for her, now and always. Tell her that you DO NOT WANT to pressure her. Give her the space, the freedom - a way to actually make her love you even more, maybe for ever (or at least until the time is right).
2006-08-11 07:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by his_i_m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe...you have to analyze your life and hers too...you can't just propose and not have a plan...you're still in school, as much as you want her to be the one you want to find out what her plans are...instead of proposing, you should get her a promise ring and let her know that you can see each other spending the rest of your lives together...prepare for the worst so if it happens, mentally you'll be prepared...its cute that you're thinking soo far ahead, most men don't...but there are a lot of things or choices you can make and she can make that don't involve each other...patience is a virtue...
2006-08-11 07:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is sir because whether you know it or not you are still just a boy (and that's not a bad thing @ 16)You will change and become a man one day and you will look back at 16 and think who was that guy. Give yourself time to know ...well...you. Please don't rush into anything now. It's not fair to her and more importantly it's not fair to you.
2006-08-11 08:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Eboni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait you're way too young.
No offense, but grow up a little, learn how to spell and hold off on marriage.
2006-08-11 07:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Troy S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋