who's side should i pick?

Question

i have two friends and one talks about the other and then when the person finds about it she starts saying things bout her the other askes what they said but im not supposed to say and all of this goes on for most of the school year and then finally one of the girls say whos side are u on who should i pick?

Answer 1

no ones side....

Answer 2

You need to talk to both of these people and tell them you like them both as friends equally.Tell them that what they are doing is putting you in a real uncomfortable situation. If they are true friends iit will stop if they chose sides then really they are not the kind of friends worth having . Go out and find someone special. Remember a person has only a handful of real friends at any giving time.

Answer 3

Don't pick any side, if they are really your friends, they wouldn't want u to choose between them. And if they don't like it, tell them to deal with it, it's ur life, and u can do whatever u want with it. And if they start talking about u, well who cares what they think. They are not the queens of the world, they can't boss u around.

There are some people in ur school that really like you. Don't pay attention to them, coz they are not u friends.

Answer 4

I don't think u should pick sides, u need to tell them that u are friends with both of them and that u r not going to get in the middle of them fighting and talking behind eachothers back because that is wrong. And if they cannot keep u out of it, just tell them that u can no longer be their friend anymore.Hope I could help...bye!

Answer 5

I had that problem in 1st grade. I would sit between them on the bus. I did not show favortism to either. I did not talk about either one of them. It seem to work out well. I suggest you tell them both, look I am both of your friends, and I like both of you. I would appreciate it if you wouldn't put me in the middle of it. I am not going to choose one over the other. When they talk about each other, don't say anything or say look I told you not to get me involved and I mean it. Don't tell the other one what they said. Make them come to some kind of compromise with sharing your friendship.

Answer 6

You don't need to be caught in the middle of their drama. Tell them you won't be involved in this anymore and that they need to work things out between the two of them. If they are both your friends, you don't need to pick a side, their problems with each other are theirs, not yours!

Answer 7

If you don't want to be in the middle of it you need to speak up when one is talking about the other and say: "I don't want to listen to you talk about my friend." You should not need to pick sides.

Answer 8

Neither. They need to resolve this them selves. Tell them it is tearing you apart to be in the middle of it. They need to work it out. A true friend does not ask you too choose sides.

Answer 9

Neither side. A true friend would not put anyone in the middle of arguments. If they continue simply tell both of them "I value both of your friendships and don't want to be put in the middle any longer. It's not fair to anyone of us that you ask me to choose between you both."

If they persist drop them both, they aren't your friends anyway and your better than that.

Answer 10

Don't pick either side. Stay neutral. Because if you pick sides - guess what? you will probably end up being talked about by both of them!

Answer 11

you are not apart of this fight. You shouldn't have to pick a side... If they are insistant on you picking a side stop talking to them and tell them they need to straighten out their problems....