I know that there is usually a double standard as far as the difference between men and women as far as "experience" vs. "dirty". Do you think it is dirtier for a man being with a "dirty" woman(in), or a woman to be with a dirty man(having in). When i was younger, the thought of sex was pretty disgusting to me to begin with, and i guess as a woman, i think for me being with a dirty man would be more violating than a man being with a dirty woman. I mean what's the difference for a man, either way, just wash it off right? Do you think less of either sex for sleeping with "too many people"? Which sex is more wrong, and how many is too many?
2006-08-11 06:38:43 · 11 answers · asked by Cyndi Storm 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By dirty, i mean what some might consider a "****". But people have different ideas of what that is. I mean people that you don't honestly know "where they've been" or what they might have. That's dirty.
2006-08-11 06:54:00 · update #1
And i'm not saying that i think sex is disgusting now, only when i was like 12 and first found out what it actually was. Now I am happily married with a one-year-old and one on the way. Not the same person as i was then. But I have also had more partners than i would consider Ok.(3). My perceptions have changed, and i'm just wondering what other people think about how many partners is ok or not.
2006-08-11 06:56:56 · update #2
I think having more partners than your age is definitely dirty. . . .
2006-08-11 06:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people today have slept with more then 30 partners, I guess I would have to say that any more then 50 partners is toooooooooo many in ones life time. I think it is sick and wrong for a girl or a guy to sleep with a dirty person period........ IMO....... A man can 'wash it off' however it is a known fact that who ever you sleep with, you are sleeping with there past partners as well and they are sleeping with yours. So you tell us who is dirtiest and more wrong.
2006-08-11 06:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with some one else beside your mom, sex is not dirty, sex if with the right person is gods way to make life. so if some one is telling you sex is dirty then they have had a bad experiences with it and they will tell you that it is bad, you must find out for your self, do not run out and do it.. take your time find the right one , some one that loves you for the right things and will help you learn about life together, good luck.
2006-08-11 06:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by its777999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might have some serious issues around sex. You should talk this through with someone.
The idea that a man can make a woman dirty is very 19th century.
2006-08-11 06:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like to talk about women being either sluts or teases. no matter what you may think youre never going to change other peoples minds and you need to quit worrying so much on what others think as long as your happy with who you are and your hubby. lifes too short to worry about what others think. the man will never look as bad as a woman sexually and thats a known fact. i dont know why it is and i dont care. just live your life well and have fun with it. dont worry too much about what others think and youll be all the happier. good luck to you and be happy.
2006-08-11 11:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by carrie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think badly of either sex who sleeps around with multiple partners. It is equally NASTY. In my opinion, 2 is ONE too many unless you were married and the spouse died or was abusive so you divorced them.
2006-08-11 06:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask a lot of questions!!!! I don't believe in double standards I think sex is never dirty as long as it's consensual etc etc and you can never have too many! people will prbably slate me for saying that.
2006-08-11 06:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm....maybe u just haven't experienced sex with more then 1 person....i think it is a nature part of life...and as long as u are not going around promoting yourself..what u do on your ownm time to make yourself happy....is fine. As long as who ever u have been with..gets checked out if they have been with a lot of ppl
2006-08-11 07:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex when doen correctly and right is great. One of lifes natural pleasures (the other being cheesecake)
2006-08-11 06:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't personnaly think less of them, but as far as "too many" i would say 50,000 is pretty close to too many
2006-08-11 06:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋