wat do i do when a friend is a liar?

Question

she always lies to me and i never know when she's telling the truth wat do i do

o yeah did i mention that she always bails on me to go with her other firends

Answer 1

XXXXXXXXXXXXX kick her to the curb and get a friend you can trust. XXXXXXXXXX

Answer 2

Ask yourself this: IS she really a friend or someone that uses you for new information and contacts? And if you "can't trust her," then for God's sake move on hun, I know it will be hard, but think back to the heart-ache he may have caused by spreading false stories. Has someone been hurt by "something YOU didn't even say, yet she said YOU DID?" Or has she taking information you gave her and spread lies with it? Both are enough to drop the friendship, just don't answer the phone and talk to her less and less, tell her your "going to church" or something that she won't find interesting, lol.

Just remember, "you ARE the company you keep," so if people see the both of you together, they will assume that you approve of what she does. Good luck with that!

Answer 3

When your friend is a liar U could comfront her about it. ( tell her you know and like ask her Y)
Or just forgive and forget. but if it's a serious thing and she lied to U about it just try to find a better friend. And once U find some body else to hang out with. Gradually work away from her. So that u don't have a enemy. How this helps. Have a nice day

Answer 4

Since you know she's a liar, just listen to her. In the first place, if she's fooling somebody, that could be herself and not you becasue you are aware that she is a liar. Maybe she lies because she has a lot of things she wants to get but she ends up getting frustrated or maybe the things she wants are too far from her own reality so lying would be her outlet -- to at least make something real in her own way...

Answer 5

It depends on the lies. I have a sister that just can't help herself she tells one after another. But they are for the most part harmless. She says she's been places she doesn't even know the directions to, knows people shes never met. Done things she's never done.

As long as you know that I guess it's OK. But some people tell vicious lies, about other people a person like that should be shunned.

Answer 6

You need to find a new friend and ditch this one. Lies and deceit is NOT the way to hold a friendship. Hopefully she will learn this little lesson sooner or later or she'll never be able to form bonds. You could tell her that before you go, just so she knows. It may not help her now, but if she experiences it as often as I think she will, she may see the light one day.

Answer 7

I know exactly what you're going threw. I dont' get why people do that, all they end up doing is just contridicting themselves anyway. My ex-best friend was a huge liar. This girl went and told the whole school she got accepted to Harvard Law School. Yeah Right! I just had to let her go. I met new friends. I stop calling her to hang out. She's wierd.

Answer 8

Ask her why she lies so much? Maybe she likes to make the story interesting. If she continues tell her yall will hang lesser than the norm~ Can't deal with the doubts of knowing you could be lying to me~ Not funny

Answer 9

Probably a compulsive liar which means she needs professional help for this. Say that to her. Tell her unless she gets help for the lying that you can't cope with that kind of a friendship but that you are willing to stand by her through it if she does.

Answer 10

I know its very hard to take that your friend is lying . first try to find why is she lying to you, try to jort out the points where she usually lie and find out the .This could be serious problem and she might be suffering from a serious disease and the reason for it could be any insecurity or inferiority compex or atmosphere at home is not comfortable to her. Talk to her and make her comfortable. You as a friend can help her out of this problem.
Dr. Shilpa

Answer 11

If you care about her confront her when you know she is lying. Tell her you prefer to have an honest relationship. It is apparent that her lies are not meant to be harmful to you or you would have ended the friendship. People sometimes makeup things because they are insecure about themselves and are trying to impress those around them. If this is the case, let her know she can just be herself around you.